Hey guys I work as a bar man,and get a fair few compliments ,anything from your hot,your nice ,etc stares looks and all ,just wondering whats the best to do in these situations as im still at work ,but want to get with the girl ? or whats the best reply to these statements made ? thanks again
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Girls giving you compliments...
- Thread starter Anfz
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Just start a conversation. For example like that:
HB: Hey! You´re hot!
Me: Yeah, I know. I always am! *****y smile*
What´s your name?
HB: I´m ...
Me: I´m ChrizZ. *shake hands*
So, do you tell every guy you see that he´s hot, (her name)?
...... just start a conversation, it´s really easy
HB: Hey! You´re hot!
Me: Yeah, I know. I always am! *****y smile*
What´s your name?
HB: I´m ...
Me: I´m ChrizZ. *shake hands*
So, do you tell every guy you see that he´s hot, (her name)?
...... just start a conversation, it´s really easy
but do you guys think its better to keep a more modest attitude in relation to your looks, especially if you get complimented on them rather than being ****y even more so could come across as too full of yourself ? what do you think
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
.. yup, so dont keep talking. deliver other ppl , take ur time.. be nice with other ppl, then talk to her again and then deliver..NatiL said:it's better not to be ****y about the thing they compliment you on.
take it as an indicator of interest and an approach invitation, start into a conversation. maintain your coolness, don't go into interview mode, and you're set.
now if she goes away, then she'll come back later...
now if she does come back later or not, dont be worried coz u'll probably find other chicks sayin that ure hot or nice or wutever, so do that bit of talking and then a more bit of cups filling ...dont forget to be nice to everyone
thanks guys for your advice,but what would you do with girls who dont compliment you ,but you want to get to know being a bar man and all can exactly stand there talking to them for half and hr,any openers or a way to establish something quickly ? thanks again
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
Just say, "Hey I'd love to talk more, but my boss has been breathing down my neck lately and I gotta get back to work. Can I get your number?"Anfz said:^^^how exactly would you do this ?