Hey guys I work as a bar man,and get a fair few compliments ,anything from your hot,your nice ,etc stares looks and all ,just wondering whats the best to do in these situations as im still at work ,but want to get with the girl ? or whats the best reply to these statements made ? thanks again
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Girls giving you compliments...
- Thread starter Anfz
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Just start a conversation. For example like that:
HB: Hey! You´re hot!
Me: Yeah, I know. I always am! *****y smile*
What´s your name?
HB: I´m ...
Me: I´m ChrizZ. *shake hands*
So, do you tell every guy you see that he´s hot, (her name)?
...... just start a conversation, it´s really easy
HB: Hey! You´re hot!
Me: Yeah, I know. I always am! *****y smile*
What´s your name?
HB: I´m ...
Me: I´m ChrizZ. *shake hands*
So, do you tell every guy you see that he´s hot, (her name)?
...... just start a conversation, it´s really easy
but do you guys think its better to keep a more modest attitude in relation to your looks, especially if you get complimented on them rather than being ****y even more so could come across as too full of yourself ? what do you think
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
.. yup, so dont keep talking. deliver other ppl , take ur time.. be nice with other ppl, then talk to her again and then deliver..NatiL said:it's better not to be ****y about the thing they compliment you on.
take it as an indicator of interest and an approach invitation, start into a conversation. maintain your coolness, don't go into interview mode, and you're set.
now if she goes away, then she'll come back later...
now if she does come back later or not, dont be worried coz u'll probably find other chicks sayin that ure hot or nice or wutever, so do that bit of talking and then a more bit of cups filling ...dont forget to be nice to everyone
thanks guys for your advice,but what would you do with girls who dont compliment you ,but you want to get to know being a bar man and all can exactly stand there talking to them for half and hr,any openers or a way to establish something quickly ? thanks again
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
Just say, "Hey I'd love to talk more, but my boss has been breathing down my neck lately and I gotta get back to work. Can I get your number?"Anfz said:^^^how exactly would you do this ?