Hey guys I work as a bar man,and get a fair few compliments ,anything from your hot,your nice ,etc stares looks and all ,just wondering whats the best to do in these situations as im still at work ,but want to get with the girl ? or whats the best reply to these statements made ? thanks again
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Girls giving you compliments...
- Thread starter Anfz
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Just start a conversation. For example like that:
HB: Hey! You´re hot!
Me: Yeah, I know. I always am! *****y smile*
What´s your name?
HB: I´m ...
Me: I´m ChrizZ. *shake hands*
So, do you tell every guy you see that he´s hot, (her name)?
...... just start a conversation, it´s really easy
HB: Hey! You´re hot!
Me: Yeah, I know. I always am! *****y smile*
What´s your name?
HB: I´m ...
Me: I´m ChrizZ. *shake hands*
So, do you tell every guy you see that he´s hot, (her name)?
...... just start a conversation, it´s really easy
but do you guys think its better to keep a more modest attitude in relation to your looks, especially if you get complimented on them rather than being ****y even more so could come across as too full of yourself ? what do you think
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
.. yup, so dont keep talking. deliver other ppl , take ur time.. be nice with other ppl, then talk to her again and then deliver..NatiL said:it's better not to be ****y about the thing they compliment you on.
take it as an indicator of interest and an approach invitation, start into a conversation. maintain your coolness, don't go into interview mode, and you're set.
now if she goes away, then she'll come back later...
now if she does come back later or not, dont be worried coz u'll probably find other chicks sayin that ure hot or nice or wutever, so do that bit of talking and then a more bit of cups filling ...dont forget to be nice to everyone
thanks guys for your advice,but what would you do with girls who dont compliment you ,but you want to get to know being a bar man and all can exactly stand there talking to them for half and hr,any openers or a way to establish something quickly ? thanks again
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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
Just say, "Hey I'd love to talk more, but my boss has been breathing down my neck lately and I gotta get back to work. Can I get your number?"Anfz said:^^^how exactly would you do this ?