Hey guys I work as a bar man,and get a fair few compliments ,anything from your hot,your nice ,etc stares looks and all ,just wondering whats the best to do in these situations as im still at work ,but want to get with the girl ? or whats the best reply to these statements made ? thanks again
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Girls giving you compliments...
- Thread starter Anfz
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Just start a conversation. For example like that:
HB: Hey! You´re hot!
Me: Yeah, I know. I always am! *****y smile*
What´s your name?
HB: I´m ...
Me: I´m ChrizZ. *shake hands*
So, do you tell every guy you see that he´s hot, (her name)?
...... just start a conversation, it´s really easy
HB: Hey! You´re hot!
Me: Yeah, I know. I always am! *****y smile*
What´s your name?
HB: I´m ...
Me: I´m ChrizZ. *shake hands*
So, do you tell every guy you see that he´s hot, (her name)?
...... just start a conversation, it´s really easy
but do you guys think its better to keep a more modest attitude in relation to your looks, especially if you get complimented on them rather than being ****y even more so could come across as too full of yourself ? what do you think
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
.. yup, so dont keep talking. deliver other ppl , take ur time.. be nice with other ppl, then talk to her again and then deliver..NatiL said:it's better not to be ****y about the thing they compliment you on.
take it as an indicator of interest and an approach invitation, start into a conversation. maintain your coolness, don't go into interview mode, and you're set.
now if she goes away, then she'll come back later...
now if she does come back later or not, dont be worried coz u'll probably find other chicks sayin that ure hot or nice or wutever, so do that bit of talking and then a more bit of cups filling ...dont forget to be nice to everyone
thanks guys for your advice,but what would you do with girls who dont compliment you ,but you want to get to know being a bar man and all can exactly stand there talking to them for half and hr,any openers or a way to establish something quickly ? thanks again
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
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Master Don Juan
Just say, "Hey I'd love to talk more, but my boss has been breathing down my neck lately and I gotta get back to work. Can I get your number?"Anfz said:^^^how exactly would you do this ?