"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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LADawg49

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I was wondering when it comes to approaching women, is it easier to approach women in certain areas than other? I personally have found girls in the hood/inner city to be more approachable than girls in the suburbs.. Whenever I drive to Inglewood and South Central L.A., I have no problem chattin up the women there and its much easier to cold approach them than say in the San Fernando Valley(suburbs of L.A.). If I tried doin the cold approach in the San Fernando Valley, they'd think im tryin to rob them and all.
From your experiences, does location play as a factor on if a woman is more approachable or not?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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I think that the environment plays a factor. I can see the difference between chatting up a woman in a club as opposed to a book store or clothing store. It all depends on their comfort factor which I believe is effected by their present company.

Women tend to act different whether or not they have their friends nearby. That is why it's good when appoaching a woman in a group, to engage the entire group since she will more than likely engage you in the manner that the entire group does.

But back to the environment issue, be careful not to catagorize hood woman or burb women. I've seen each completely change their demeanor when put into a different environment.
 

Skel

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the best place to approach is in a feces infested bathroom because its so romantic
 
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LOL LaDawg, I live in the San Fernando Valley... and yes, approaches are nice and difficult here thanks to the extreme attractiveness of so many of the girls plus the enhanced bytch shields.

Gotta love a challenge... :D
 

LADawg49

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Ay, what part of the San Fernando Valley you in? I stay in Northridge. Today, me and my homie were ridin down Crenshaw Blvd in South Central L.A. and saw these group of tight females. However, he warned me(he grew up all over South Central) that they probably were associated with the Bloods because they had all red on and that u never know what might happen. We go inside the restaurant and just as we go out, three dudes come out to them all in red,so u know they probably Blood members, especially since the area was around the Crenshaw Mall(Known Blood territory since its around the Jungle). No woman worth getin in trouble over.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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