"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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LADawg49

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I was wondering when it comes to approaching women, is it easier to approach women in certain areas than other? I personally have found girls in the hood/inner city to be more approachable than girls in the suburbs.. Whenever I drive to Inglewood and South Central L.A., I have no problem chattin up the women there and its much easier to cold approach them than say in the San Fernando Valley(suburbs of L.A.). If I tried doin the cold approach in the San Fernando Valley, they'd think im tryin to rob them and all.
From your experiences, does location play as a factor on if a woman is more approachable or not?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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I think that the environment plays a factor. I can see the difference between chatting up a woman in a club as opposed to a book store or clothing store. It all depends on their comfort factor which I believe is effected by their present company.

Women tend to act different whether or not they have their friends nearby. That is why it's good when appoaching a woman in a group, to engage the entire group since she will more than likely engage you in the manner that the entire group does.

But back to the environment issue, be careful not to catagorize hood woman or burb women. I've seen each completely change their demeanor when put into a different environment.
 

Skel

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the best place to approach is in a feces infested bathroom because its so romantic
 
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LOL LaDawg, I live in the San Fernando Valley... and yes, approaches are nice and difficult here thanks to the extreme attractiveness of so many of the girls plus the enhanced bytch shields.

Gotta love a challenge... :D
 

LADawg49

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Ay, what part of the San Fernando Valley you in? I stay in Northridge. Today, me and my homie were ridin down Crenshaw Blvd in South Central L.A. and saw these group of tight females. However, he warned me(he grew up all over South Central) that they probably were associated with the Bloods because they had all red on and that u never know what might happen. We go inside the restaurant and just as we go out, three dudes come out to them all in red,so u know they probably Blood members, especially since the area was around the Crenshaw Mall(Known Blood territory since its around the Jungle). No woman worth getin in trouble over.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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