"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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LADawg49

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I was wondering when it comes to approaching women, is it easier to approach women in certain areas than other? I personally have found girls in the hood/inner city to be more approachable than girls in the suburbs.. Whenever I drive to Inglewood and South Central L.A., I have no problem chattin up the women there and its much easier to cold approach them than say in the San Fernando Valley(suburbs of L.A.). If I tried doin the cold approach in the San Fernando Valley, they'd think im tryin to rob them and all.
From your experiences, does location play as a factor on if a woman is more approachable or not?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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I think that the environment plays a factor. I can see the difference between chatting up a woman in a club as opposed to a book store or clothing store. It all depends on their comfort factor which I believe is effected by their present company.

Women tend to act different whether or not they have their friends nearby. That is why it's good when appoaching a woman in a group, to engage the entire group since she will more than likely engage you in the manner that the entire group does.

But back to the environment issue, be careful not to catagorize hood woman or burb women. I've seen each completely change their demeanor when put into a different environment.
 

Skel

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the best place to approach is in a feces infested bathroom because its so romantic
 
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LOL LaDawg, I live in the San Fernando Valley... and yes, approaches are nice and difficult here thanks to the extreme attractiveness of so many of the girls plus the enhanced bytch shields.

Gotta love a challenge... :D
 

LADawg49

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Ay, what part of the San Fernando Valley you in? I stay in Northridge. Today, me and my homie were ridin down Crenshaw Blvd in South Central L.A. and saw these group of tight females. However, he warned me(he grew up all over South Central) that they probably were associated with the Bloods because they had all red on and that u never know what might happen. We go inside the restaurant and just as we go out, three dudes come out to them all in red,so u know they probably Blood members, especially since the area was around the Crenshaw Mall(Known Blood territory since its around the Jungle). No woman worth getin in trouble over.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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