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girls ask if you have a girlfriend?

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I've had a ton of girls in real life situations ask if I have a girlfriend. So I decided to ask girls now if they have a boyfriend? reckon that's good game?
 

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I've had a ton of girls in real life situations ask if I have a girlfriend. So I decided to ask girls now if they have a boyfriend? reckon that's good game?
How you answer her question would depend on the situation but I would typically do a C&F (and overall avoidant) response to that. However, never ask her if she has a boyfriend. That immediately comes across as desperate to them. Just assume they don't and ask them out for a drink (or just buy her one if you are already at the bar/restaurant). If she is in a serious, committed relationship (and wants to continue to be) she will let you know without you asking. You maintain much better frame this way.
 

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Just pause, give her a big stare and say "are you serious?" and just keep your eye contact and maintain a serious look. After she says whatever she has to say, just shake your head.
 

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I always liked the “No I like to do whatever I want whenever I want” response.
 

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The magic bullet that ALWAYS works in just about ANY situation:

"I am currently enjoying the single life/dating. I am in no rush for something serious but not opposed to more with the right person.".

Her: Do you have a girlfriend?
Me: No. I am currently enjoying the single life/dating. I am in no rush for something serious but not opposed to more with the right person.

Her: What are you looking for:
Me: I am currently enjoying the single life/dating. I am in no rush for something serious but not opposed to more with the right person

Her: Are you wanting a relationship?
Me: I am currently enjoying the single life/dating. I am in no rush for something serious but not opposed to more with the right person

Happy hunting
 
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