"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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girls are liking lesser guys cuz they can

_sideways_

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The can have their cake and eat it too.

Dont be cake. Simple.

Leave them...its in their genetic make up to come back. Theory.



No more lame posts here please. Hit on everything and anything and grow as a sexy man.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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BrainDamage92

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I am testing this on two fronts will have answers in july and august respectively ;]. But I already know the answer from my past ;]
 

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Most posters here are using their lack of experiences as an excuse to avoid their fears like approaching and escalating and they thing by getting more answers and knowledge they are going to get better. That's not how it works, it's like trying to run 100 meters in 10 seconds by reading all the infos about running and watching all the videos of the succesfull 100 meters runners. That's not going to work.

Get yourself out there and diminish your ego drop by drop until you start doing what you were afraid of and having no investment or giving 2 fùcks about what the outcome is.
 

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om1xr said:
Most posters here are using their lack of experiences as an excuse to avoid their fears like approaching and escalating and they thing by getting more answers and knowledge they are going to get better. That's not how it works, it's like trying to run 100 meters in 10 seconds by reading all the infos about running and watching all the videos of the succesfull 100 meters runners. That's not going to work.

Get yourself out there and diminish your ego drop by drop until you start doing what you were afraid of and having no investment or giving 2 fùcks about what the outcome is.

Excellent bro.
But thats how it has always been. Wen firzt learning to walk you get bumps. First couple of any life experiences. Everyone has had an easy life so far. We all got a bit complacent. But its up to you to bring out ur true beast nature. Men and women.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girls are dating lesser guys but most are still going after bums with no job and a criminal record. It's just that instead of dating 10 bums, they've widdled it down to 5 bums.
 
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