"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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girls are liking lesser guys cuz they can

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The can have their cake and eat it too.

Dont be cake. Simple.

Leave them...its in their genetic make up to come back. Theory.



No more lame posts here please. Hit on everything and anything and grow as a sexy man.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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BrainDamage92

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I am testing this on two fronts will have answers in july and august respectively ;]. But I already know the answer from my past ;]
 

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Most posters here are using their lack of experiences as an excuse to avoid their fears like approaching and escalating and they thing by getting more answers and knowledge they are going to get better. That's not how it works, it's like trying to run 100 meters in 10 seconds by reading all the infos about running and watching all the videos of the succesfull 100 meters runners. That's not going to work.

Get yourself out there and diminish your ego drop by drop until you start doing what you were afraid of and having no investment or giving 2 fùcks about what the outcome is.
 

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om1xr said:
Most posters here are using their lack of experiences as an excuse to avoid their fears like approaching and escalating and they thing by getting more answers and knowledge they are going to get better. That's not how it works, it's like trying to run 100 meters in 10 seconds by reading all the infos about running and watching all the videos of the succesfull 100 meters runners. That's not going to work.

Get yourself out there and diminish your ego drop by drop until you start doing what you were afraid of and having no investment or giving 2 fùcks about what the outcome is.

Excellent bro.
But thats how it has always been. Wen firzt learning to walk you get bumps. First couple of any life experiences. Everyone has had an easy life so far. We all got a bit complacent. But its up to you to bring out ur true beast nature. Men and women.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Robert28

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Girls are dating lesser guys but most are still going after bums with no job and a criminal record. It's just that instead of dating 10 bums, they've widdled it down to 5 bums.
 
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