"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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girls are liking lesser guys cuz they can

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The can have their cake and eat it too.

Dont be cake. Simple.

Leave them...its in their genetic make up to come back. Theory.



No more lame posts here please. Hit on everything and anything and grow as a sexy man.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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BrainDamage92

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I am testing this on two fronts will have answers in july and august respectively ;]. But I already know the answer from my past ;]
 

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Most posters here are using their lack of experiences as an excuse to avoid their fears like approaching and escalating and they thing by getting more answers and knowledge they are going to get better. That's not how it works, it's like trying to run 100 meters in 10 seconds by reading all the infos about running and watching all the videos of the succesfull 100 meters runners. That's not going to work.

Get yourself out there and diminish your ego drop by drop until you start doing what you were afraid of and having no investment or giving 2 fùcks about what the outcome is.
 

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om1xr said:
Most posters here are using their lack of experiences as an excuse to avoid their fears like approaching and escalating and they thing by getting more answers and knowledge they are going to get better. That's not how it works, it's like trying to run 100 meters in 10 seconds by reading all the infos about running and watching all the videos of the succesfull 100 meters runners. That's not going to work.

Get yourself out there and diminish your ego drop by drop until you start doing what you were afraid of and having no investment or giving 2 fùcks about what the outcome is.

Excellent bro.
But thats how it has always been. Wen firzt learning to walk you get bumps. First couple of any life experiences. Everyone has had an easy life so far. We all got a bit complacent. But its up to you to bring out ur true beast nature. Men and women.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Girls are dating lesser guys but most are still going after bums with no job and a criminal record. It's just that instead of dating 10 bums, they've widdled it down to 5 bums.
 
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