"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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girls are liking lesser guys cuz they can

_sideways_

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The can have their cake and eat it too.

Dont be cake. Simple.

Leave them...its in their genetic make up to come back. Theory.



No more lame posts here please. Hit on everything and anything and grow as a sexy man.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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BrainDamage92

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I am testing this on two fronts will have answers in july and august respectively ;]. But I already know the answer from my past ;]
 

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Most posters here are using their lack of experiences as an excuse to avoid their fears like approaching and escalating and they thing by getting more answers and knowledge they are going to get better. That's not how it works, it's like trying to run 100 meters in 10 seconds by reading all the infos about running and watching all the videos of the succesfull 100 meters runners. That's not going to work.

Get yourself out there and diminish your ego drop by drop until you start doing what you were afraid of and having no investment or giving 2 fùcks about what the outcome is.
 

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om1xr said:
Most posters here are using their lack of experiences as an excuse to avoid their fears like approaching and escalating and they thing by getting more answers and knowledge they are going to get better. That's not how it works, it's like trying to run 100 meters in 10 seconds by reading all the infos about running and watching all the videos of the succesfull 100 meters runners. That's not going to work.

Get yourself out there and diminish your ego drop by drop until you start doing what you were afraid of and having no investment or giving 2 fùcks about what the outcome is.

Excellent bro.
But thats how it has always been. Wen firzt learning to walk you get bumps. First couple of any life experiences. Everyone has had an easy life so far. We all got a bit complacent. But its up to you to bring out ur true beast nature. Men and women.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Girls are dating lesser guys but most are still going after bums with no job and a criminal record. It's just that instead of dating 10 bums, they've widdled it down to 5 bums.
 
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