"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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girls are liking lesser guys cuz they can

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The can have their cake and eat it too.

Dont be cake. Simple.

Leave them...its in their genetic make up to come back. Theory.



No more lame posts here please. Hit on everything and anything and grow as a sexy man.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I am testing this on two fronts will have answers in july and august respectively ;]. But I already know the answer from my past ;]
 

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Most posters here are using their lack of experiences as an excuse to avoid their fears like approaching and escalating and they thing by getting more answers and knowledge they are going to get better. That's not how it works, it's like trying to run 100 meters in 10 seconds by reading all the infos about running and watching all the videos of the succesfull 100 meters runners. That's not going to work.

Get yourself out there and diminish your ego drop by drop until you start doing what you were afraid of and having no investment or giving 2 fùcks about what the outcome is.
 

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om1xr said:
Most posters here are using their lack of experiences as an excuse to avoid their fears like approaching and escalating and they thing by getting more answers and knowledge they are going to get better. That's not how it works, it's like trying to run 100 meters in 10 seconds by reading all the infos about running and watching all the videos of the succesfull 100 meters runners. That's not going to work.

Get yourself out there and diminish your ego drop by drop until you start doing what you were afraid of and having no investment or giving 2 fùcks about what the outcome is.

Excellent bro.
But thats how it has always been. Wen firzt learning to walk you get bumps. First couple of any life experiences. Everyone has had an easy life so far. We all got a bit complacent. But its up to you to bring out ur true beast nature. Men and women.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girls are dating lesser guys but most are still going after bums with no job and a criminal record. It's just that instead of dating 10 bums, they've widdled it down to 5 bums.
 
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