They are. I'm sick and tired of them. Obsessing over this one or that one. Talking to them, and getting rejected. Grades slipping. Wondering, then getting rejected. It's all so annoying, and such a shot to the ego.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Girls are destroying my life
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Its not girls that are destroying your life. It is you that is letting girls destroy your life. Girls aren't here to destroy your life. Right now your just in whining mood because this ONE girl did something that was bad. There a billions more girls in the world.
3 in 2 weeks, bro. It's such a blow to the ego.Lamia said:Its not girls that are destroying your life. It is you that is letting girls destroy your life. Girls aren't here to destroy your life. Right now your just in whining mood because this ONE girl did something that was bad. There a billions more girls in the world.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
WHAT NO! Going up to a girl and talking to her will boost your Ego. And I know that right after 3 weeks when you are done being a baby you'll be like "Oh I gotta meet someone new"Bling said:3 in 2 weeks, bro. It's such a blow to the ego.
DO SOMETHING NOW
Go out and do stuff outside of school if your Rep isnt good.
The Shocker
Senior Don Juan
Time to take it in the azz.
Dandrufman
Don Juan
1.) Don't obsess over this one or that one. Ever. Period. End of sentence. You're putting too much importance on her, and that sets you up for a fall. Its like winding a spring, the more energy you put into it the harder it will hit you if (and in this case, when) it breaks.
2.) Don't let girls get more important than, say, your grades. Girls should be a side interest, not your primary passion in life.
2.) Don't let girls get more important than, say, your grades. Girls should be a side interest, not your primary passion in life.
GaryUranga
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why does you ego depend on a girl youre approaching? stop making meaning out of external events
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Redux said:Make no doubt, you are destroying your life.
The moment I read the title of this thread, the words "No, you are destroying your life" popped into my head.
Life is what you make it. You choose how you handle situations. It may take some mental conditioning, but no matter what, YOU are in control of your emotions, of your thoughts, and most importantly, of your actions.
3 rejections in two weeks? Is that what you're saying? Your point? Even to this day I get shut down here and there. I'm no Casanova, but I do get my fair share of interest. This isn't something that happens over night, it's taken me nearly 4 years of lazy, indirect improvement to get to where I'm at. I've still got plenty of work as well. Do you honestly think, that life is all about getting laid, or getting a girlfriend? How about making yourself the best you can be at everything you do.
Take it upon yourself to become in better shape, smarter, more diverse. Take up a few hobbies, preferably something where you can MAKE something. Being able to visually record your progress is amazing. Make girls about halfway down your list. Sure, they're important, but they're nothing to focus your life around, my friend.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
shydude
Master Don Juan
There is always "become gay" option.
Wait there is also "become emo" too!! Ya pick tht one!!
Wait there is also "become emo" too!! Ya pick tht one!!