They are. I'm sick and tired of them. Obsessing over this one or that one. Talking to them, and getting rejected. Grades slipping. Wondering, then getting rejected. It's all so annoying, and such a shot to the ego.
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Girls are destroying my life
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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Its not girls that are destroying your life. It is you that is letting girls destroy your life. Girls aren't here to destroy your life. Right now your just in whining mood because this ONE girl did something that was bad. There a billions more girls in the world.
WHAT NO! Going up to a girl and talking to her will boost your Ego. And I know that right after 3 weeks when you are done being a baby you'll be like "Oh I gotta meet someone new"Bling said:
DO SOMETHING NOW
Go out and do stuff outside of school if your Rep isnt good.
The Shocker
Senior Don Juan
Time to take it in the azz.
Dandrufman
Don Juan
1.) Don't obsess over this one or that one. Ever. Period. End of sentence. You're putting too much importance on her, and that sets you up for a fall. Its like winding a spring, the more energy you put into it the harder it will hit you if (and in this case, when) it breaks.
2.) Don't let girls get more important than, say, your grades. Girls should be a side interest, not your primary passion in life.
2.) Don't let girls get more important than, say, your grades. Girls should be a side interest, not your primary passion in life.
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why does you ego depend on a girl youre approaching? stop making meaning out of external events
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Redux said:
The moment I read the title of this thread, the words "No, you are destroying your life" popped into my head.
Life is what you make it. You choose how you handle situations. It may take some mental conditioning, but no matter what, YOU are in control of your emotions, of your thoughts, and most importantly, of your actions.
3 rejections in two weeks? Is that what you're saying? Your point? Even to this day I get shut down here and there. I'm no Casanova, but I do get my fair share of interest. This isn't something that happens over night, it's taken me nearly 4 years of lazy, indirect improvement to get to where I'm at. I've still got plenty of work as well. Do you honestly think, that life is all about getting laid, or getting a girlfriend? How about making yourself the best you can be at everything you do.
Take it upon yourself to become in better shape, smarter, more diverse. Take up a few hobbies, preferably something where you can MAKE something. Being able to visually record your progress is amazing. Make girls about halfway down your list. Sure, they're important, but they're nothing to focus your life around, my friend.
shydude
Master Don Juan
There is always "become gay" option.
Wait there is also "become emo" too!! Ya pick tht one!!
Wait there is also "become emo" too!! Ya pick tht one!!