They are. I'm sick and tired of them. Obsessing over this one or that one. Talking to them, and getting rejected. Grades slipping. Wondering, then getting rejected. It's all so annoying, and such a shot to the ego.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Girls are destroying my life
- Thread starter Bling
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Its not girls that are destroying your life. It is you that is letting girls destroy your life. Girls aren't here to destroy your life. Right now your just in whining mood because this ONE girl did something that was bad. There a billions more girls in the world.
3 in 2 weeks, bro. It's such a blow to the ego.Lamia said:Its not girls that are destroying your life. It is you that is letting girls destroy your life. Girls aren't here to destroy your life. Right now your just in whining mood because this ONE girl did something that was bad. There a billions more girls in the world.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
WHAT NO! Going up to a girl and talking to her will boost your Ego. And I know that right after 3 weeks when you are done being a baby you'll be like "Oh I gotta meet someone new"Bling said:3 in 2 weeks, bro. It's such a blow to the ego.
DO SOMETHING NOW
Go out and do stuff outside of school if your Rep isnt good.
The Shocker
Senior Don Juan
Time to take it in the azz.
Dandrufman
Don Juan
1.) Don't obsess over this one or that one. Ever. Period. End of sentence. You're putting too much importance on her, and that sets you up for a fall. Its like winding a spring, the more energy you put into it the harder it will hit you if (and in this case, when) it breaks.
2.) Don't let girls get more important than, say, your grades. Girls should be a side interest, not your primary passion in life.
2.) Don't let girls get more important than, say, your grades. Girls should be a side interest, not your primary passion in life.
GaryUranga
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why does you ego depend on a girl youre approaching? stop making meaning out of external events
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Redux said:Make no doubt, you are destroying your life.
The moment I read the title of this thread, the words "No, you are destroying your life" popped into my head.
Life is what you make it. You choose how you handle situations. It may take some mental conditioning, but no matter what, YOU are in control of your emotions, of your thoughts, and most importantly, of your actions.
3 rejections in two weeks? Is that what you're saying? Your point? Even to this day I get shut down here and there. I'm no Casanova, but I do get my fair share of interest. This isn't something that happens over night, it's taken me nearly 4 years of lazy, indirect improvement to get to where I'm at. I've still got plenty of work as well. Do you honestly think, that life is all about getting laid, or getting a girlfriend? How about making yourself the best you can be at everything you do.
Take it upon yourself to become in better shape, smarter, more diverse. Take up a few hobbies, preferably something where you can MAKE something. Being able to visually record your progress is amazing. Make girls about halfway down your list. Sure, they're important, but they're nothing to focus your life around, my friend.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
shydude
Master Don Juan
There is always "become gay" option.
Wait there is also "become emo" too!! Ya pick tht one!!
Wait there is also "become emo" too!! Ya pick tht one!!