You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Yes it's the right link. It's just that the site no longer exists (gee I wonder why?).Originally posted by diablo
Anything Else...
By the way, http://www.girlproblems.com only shows a yellow background with "Enlarge your Penis 1-3 inches! Hot girls in thongs! Bikini Contest!" in large letters. Is that the right link?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
please try and rememberOriginally posted by rgeere
The forum is actually still around from another similar link, I forgot the address exactly.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I post there...Originally posted by Teen Spirit
It goes by the name www.datingissues.com these days. Utter crap.
Trying to educate the AFC's are you? Good luck with that.Originally posted by AC/DC
I post there...![]()
Please....don't bring up bad memories.Originally posted by penkitten
the manhating sites are www.ihatemen.com and www.thebadgirlswirl.com if either still exsist
ewww you guys remember the bad swirl girls and the flame wars??
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
sure it is , why notOriginally posted by Abbott
Please....don't bring up bad memories.
I once even registered a screenname at Bad Girl Swirl. I wonder if it's still good? Ah well...
Ben
Haha! Yeah. Some of those girls were actually pretty cool. I ended up meeting two of them in real life.Originally posted by penkitten
ewww you guys remember the bad swirl girls and the flame wars??
Because I haven't had an occasion to post there in a LONG time, because I think the site sucks? Note the "Ah well..."Originally posted by penkitten
sure it is , why not