"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Girlproblems.com???wtf??

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wtf is this site Girlproblems I have been hearing about??some kind of feministic-manhating-site or what? what adress do they have btw, I wanna checkout(it always good with some komedy in your life:D )
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by diablo
Anything Else...

By the way, http://www.girlproblems.com only shows a yellow background with "Enlarge your Penis 1-3 inches! Hot girls in thongs! Bikini Contest!" in large letters. Is that the right link?
Yes it's the right link. It's just that the site no longer exists (gee I wonder why?).

Bile,

It used to be a site which was supposed to help men with women, kind of like this site. However, it was frowned upon by many of the members here, and many here thought that it had nothing but a bunch of AFC-type advice.

That's what I remember anyway. I only went there a couple times, so I could be wrong.

Ben
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The forum is actually still around from another similar link, I forgot the address exactly.

I wouldn't go there, it is run by a crapload of relationship hungry feminazi b;tches who feed weak advice to unsuspecting men.

They will also ban you when they find out you post at sosuave ... apparently one of the administrators checks the server logs every once in a while to see if there is an a signifigant amount of shifting back and forth between to two sites or something.
 

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Originally posted by rgeere
The forum is actually still around from another similar link, I forgot the address exactly.

please try and remember

I'm dying to see what is said there:p
 

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So we're back on this topic, huh?

I thought this died 2-3 years ago.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I used to be an avid poster when i was in 6th grade. Wow I remember when i thought that the crap they preached was true.

"Just buy her flowers and write her a love note... if she can't like you for who she is then she's missing out on a great guy":rolleyes: Gee thanks
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Abbott
Please....don't bring up bad memories.

I once even registered a screenname at Bad Girl Swirl. I wonder if it's still good? Ah well...

Ben
sure it is , why not
 

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Originally posted by penkitten

ewww you guys remember the bad swirl girls and the flame wars??
Haha! Yeah. Some of those girls were actually pretty cool. I ended up meeting two of them in real life.

-PDX
 
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