"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Girlproblems.com???wtf??
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
diablo
Master Don Juan
By the way, http://www.girlproblems.com only shows a yellow background with "Enlarge your Penis 1-3 inches! Hot girls in thongs! Bikini Contest!" in large letters. Is that the right link?
Abbott
Master Don Juan
Yes it's the right link. It's just that the site no longer exists (gee I wonder why?).
Bile,
It used to be a site which was supposed to help men with women, kind of like this site. However, it was frowned upon by many of the members here, and many here thought that it had nothing but a bunch of AFC-type advice.
That's what I remember anyway. I only went there a couple times, so I could be wrong.
Ben
rgeere
Master Don Juan
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
I wouldn't go there, it is run by a crapload of relationship hungry feminazi b;tches who feed weak advice to unsuspecting men.
They will also ban you when they find out you post at sosuave ... apparently one of the administrators checks the server logs every once in a while to see if there is an a signifigant amount of shifting back and forth between to two sites or something.
TinyFzzyKiwi
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Aztec
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I thought this died 2-3 years ago.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
PiHiPlaya
Master Don Juan
"Just buy her flowers and write her a love note... if she can't like you for who she is then she's missing out on a great guy"
Gee thanksAC/DC
Master Don Juan
I post there...
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Trying to educate the AFC's are you? Good luck with that.Originally posted by AC/DC
I post there...
penkitten
Master Don Juan
ewww you guys remember the bad swirl girls and the flame wars??
Abbott
Master Don Juan
Please....don't bring up bad memories.
I once even registered a screenname at Bad Girl Swirl. I wonder if it's still good? Ah well...
Ben
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
sure it is , why not
SexPDX
Master Don Juan
Haha! Yeah. Some of those girls were actually pretty cool. I ended up meeting two of them in real life.
-PDX
Abbott
Master Don Juan
Because I haven't had an occasion to post there in a LONG time, because I think the site sucks? Note the "Ah well..."
Ben