You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Yes it's the right link. It's just that the site no longer exists (gee I wonder why?).Originally posted by diablo
Anything Else...
By the way, http://www.girlproblems.com only shows a yellow background with "Enlarge your Penis 1-3 inches! Hot girls in thongs! Bikini Contest!" in large letters. Is that the right link?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
please try and rememberOriginally posted by rgeere
The forum is actually still around from another similar link, I forgot the address exactly.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I post there...Originally posted by Teen Spirit
It goes by the name www.datingissues.com these days. Utter crap.
Trying to educate the AFC's are you? Good luck with that.Originally posted by AC/DC
I post there...![]()
Please....don't bring up bad memories.Originally posted by penkitten
the manhating sites are www.ihatemen.com and www.thebadgirlswirl.com if either still exsist
ewww you guys remember the bad swirl girls and the flame wars??
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
sure it is , why notOriginally posted by Abbott
Please....don't bring up bad memories.
I once even registered a screenname at Bad Girl Swirl. I wonder if it's still good? Ah well...
Ben
Haha! Yeah. Some of those girls were actually pretty cool. I ended up meeting two of them in real life.Originally posted by penkitten
ewww you guys remember the bad swirl girls and the flame wars??
Because I haven't had an occasion to post there in a LONG time, because I think the site sucks? Note the "Ah well..."Originally posted by penkitten
sure it is , why not