I’ve thought about and considered both viewpoints on this. Chi & guru’sThere's nothing to discuss or inform her.
No good can come from it other then serve OP's ego and he could potentially be manipulated back into a relationship which he will ultimately end up getting dumped or cuckold - 99.999% probability.
Don't waste any more time.
Again I repeat, don't negotiate - don't discuss with her.
Just walk away.
Silence and distance pointed out by goodstuff is worth a try if in a marriage...BUT...if she is wanting to spend time with the other guy, it won’t work.
Personally, just based on my blue pill days and navigating through the garbage, the most impact would be stated if the guy walked away without any explanation. Zero reasons given. This says everything and may actually make a man feel liberated from the morass if he executed it without remorse.
As I’ve stared many times before, I don’t care about the woman in these things. I think for a healthy mind/spirit, if he just drops her, BOOM, that the residual benifits of executing a masculine action of this magnitude will enhance his life.
Both of the other two almost feel like a negotiated continuation. If she crawls back after S&D or immediately recants by executing Chi’s direct scolding...that at some level you are giving her a choice. Well, she already made her choice.
I wouldn’t give her the power of choice again.
Now that’s speaking about being through the savage gauntlet of the blue pill world.