Girl you like talks about another guy she fancies.....

[subsonic]

Hi Guys,

This is my first post on here... I've read most of the Bible already, and its good stuff!!

What do you think about this problem: I'm really into this girl who I've known for a while now. I've seen a bit more of her recently... we went out for a casual dinner the other day (not really a date)... and it was going ok, until her sister turned up with her own date and they joined us. This girl and her sister started talking about this guy that she likes (a mate of one of my mates)....

Anyway, a group of us are going out this weekend, including this girl and also this guy that she talked about is joining us (I've never met him).

How do you think I should act in this situation.... do I just ignore her and have a good time?

Let me know what you think guys....

 

[tactic]

MAKE HER LIKE YOU?

 

[Desdinova]

Make other plans.

It's pointless going out on a "date" when she's bringing all her buddies. All of them will be a distraction and she won't get to devote her full attention to you.

Even worse, she's blabing about some other dude to you. You've become her emotional tampon already. Move on.

 

[Maverick001]

subsonic,

Welcome to the forum.

Remember, try to implement as much of what the DJ Bible espouses as you can instead of just reading about it.

There's nothing like field experience.

Yeah, I would also say NEXT this chick.

Cheers,
Mav

 

[true|hockey]

if she talks about how she is attracted to other guys, than you are on the infamous friends latter. my suggestion would be just to play it for what its worth, meet her friends

 

[subsonic]

Thanks guys, maybe I overstated how the "other guy" came up... it was actually her sister who brought him up, and the girl I'm into seemed a bit embarassed about it...

Make any difference? Or do I have to scream "NEXT!!" next time I see her?!? ;-)

 

[flexion_]

Sounds like you are wasting your time.

 

[Yeto]

NEXT her, but go to the place, zero attention to her, and see if you can meet another girl, now, if you are weak and you will be suffering because she is gonna be with the other guy, then go somewhere else.