"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girl you like talks about another guy she fancies.....

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Hi Guys,

This is my first post on here... I've read most of the Bible already, and its good stuff!!

What do you think about this problem: I'm really into this girl who I've known for a while now. I've seen a bit more of her recently... we went out for a casual dinner the other day (not really a date)... and it was going ok, until her sister turned up with her own date and they joined us. This girl and her sister started talking about this guy that she likes (a mate of one of my mates)....

Anyway, a group of us are going out this weekend, including this girl and also this guy that she talked about is joining us (I've never met him).

How do you think I should act in this situation.... do I just ignore her and have a good time?

Let me know what you think guys....
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MAKE HER LIKE YOU?
 
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Make other plans.

It's pointless going out on a "date" when she's bringing all her buddies. All of them will be a distraction and she won't get to devote her full attention to you.

Even worse, she's blabing about some other dude to you. You've become her emotional tampon already. Move on.
 
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subsonic,

Welcome to the forum.

Remember, try to implement as much of what the DJ Bible espouses as you can instead of just reading about it.

There's nothing like field experience.

Yeah, I would also say NEXT this chick.

Cheers,
Mav
 
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if she talks about how she is attracted to other guys, than you are on the infamous friends latter. my suggestion would be just to play it for what its worth, meet her friends :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Thanks guys, maybe I overstated how the "other guy" came up... it was actually her sister who brought him up, and the girl I'm into seemed a bit embarassed about it...

Make any difference? Or do I have to scream "NEXT!!" next time I see her?!? ;-)
 
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NEXT her, but go to the place, zero attention to her, and see if you can meet another girl, now, if you are weak and you will be suffering because she is gonna be with the other guy, then go somewhere else.
 
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