"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Girl Won't let Me Go Down on Her??
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
gray_fox_9
Don Juan
Lost In Translation
Master Don Juan
bro i seen it all
if a woman is up to no good i already seen a chick do the exact same thing before
alot people on the forum think i am too harsh when i call the chicks they post about h0es and say they are cheating but i speak from EXPERIENCE
can it get worse than stretch marks ? yes.
SCARS. i seen scars on chicks i swear man YOU WOULD FREAK
never touched them but i been places and seen chicks showing the scars DAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAMN !
i am ignorant but i think some of them are from them having babies cut out through their stomachs / abortions ? or some type of operation ?
i seen a few chicks with this messed up scar
same as the one cameron diaz had in the movie : GANGS OF NEW YORK
guard your heart with this chick bro she has a baby and her babies daddy is IN HER LIFE
she is not LTR. her babies daddy will ALWAYS be in her life. YOU don't need that DRAMA.
get a hot german chick
Lost In Translation
**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
This must be some canned response and has some ******** meaning to it that we should all decipher and put an end to this mystery.
MindOverMatter
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A female friend of mine doesn't like getting oral sex because while it feels good for her, she can't get off that way. On the other hand, she gets off easily through vaginal intercourse. Usually when guys go down on her, they get impatient and frustrated about not being able to get her off, disappointed, or are very stubborn and ruin the mood by insisting to keep going. She avoids all that drama by avoiding oral sex.
My advice is, if she doesn't want you to eat her out, respect her wishes. If you keep insisting, you will annoy the sh!t out of her, and will come off like you are trying to hard to prove yourself. Even if she lets you go down on her, she'll have all these psychological barriers in place and wont be able to enjoy it.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
You guys wont eat off of a spoon at a restaurant because it has a speckle of dust on it but you readily indulge in that which is covered infinitely worse in germs, disease, and sperm!!!
QUIT EATING PVSSY!!!!!
optimist prime
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Dude, ever hear of a C-section? (Cesarean section)
gray_fox_9
Don Juan
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You know how during an operation, the doctors cover up all areas of the body with a towel except the area they are working on? BINGO THERES YOUR ANSWER. :crackup:
On a serious note, just be yourself and compliment what you do see. Kiss every inch of her body, tell her how good her skin smells, etc. Make her feel comfortable and eventually you will be eating from her trough.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
This is an overseas woman you have not yet met, and you were asking to eat her out?
Make no requests. Just flirt, and let things happen naturally.
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IF a woman takes good care of herself, the bacteria and fungi in her vagina should be about the same as those in your mouth, anyway.
gray_fox_9
Don Juan
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.