"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Girl Won't let Me Go Down on Her??
- Thread starter gray_fox_9
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
gray_fox_9
Don Juan
Lost In Translation
Master Don Juan
bro i seen it all
if a woman is up to no good i already seen a chick do the exact same thing before
alot people on the forum think i am too harsh when i call the chicks they post about h0es and say they are cheating but i speak from EXPERIENCE
can it get worse than stretch marks ? yes.
SCARS. i seen scars on chicks i swear man YOU WOULD FREAK
never touched them but i been places and seen chicks showing the scars DAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAMN !
i am ignorant but i think some of them are from them having babies cut out through their stomachs / abortions ? or some type of operation ?
i seen a few chicks with this messed up scar
same as the one cameron diaz had in the movie : GANGS OF NEW YORK
guard your heart with this chick bro she has a baby and her babies daddy is IN HER LIFE
she is not LTR. her babies daddy will ALWAYS be in her life. YOU don't need that DRAMA.
get a hot german chick
Lost In Translation
**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
This must be some canned response and has some ******** meaning to it that we should all decipher and put an end to this mystery.
MindOverMatter
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A female friend of mine doesn't like getting oral sex because while it feels good for her, she can't get off that way. On the other hand, she gets off easily through vaginal intercourse. Usually when guys go down on her, they get impatient and frustrated about not being able to get her off, disappointed, or are very stubborn and ruin the mood by insisting to keep going. She avoids all that drama by avoiding oral sex.
My advice is, if she doesn't want you to eat her out, respect her wishes. If you keep insisting, you will annoy the sh!t out of her, and will come off like you are trying to hard to prove yourself. Even if she lets you go down on her, she'll have all these psychological barriers in place and wont be able to enjoy it.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
You guys wont eat off of a spoon at a restaurant because it has a speckle of dust on it but you readily indulge in that which is covered infinitely worse in germs, disease, and sperm!!!
QUIT EATING PVSSY!!!!!
optimist prime
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Dude, ever hear of a C-section? (Cesarean section)
gray_fox_9
Don Juan
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You know how during an operation, the doctors cover up all areas of the body with a towel except the area they are working on? BINGO THERES YOUR ANSWER. :crackup:
On a serious note, just be yourself and compliment what you do see. Kiss every inch of her body, tell her how good her skin smells, etc. Make her feel comfortable and eventually you will be eating from her trough.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
This is an overseas woman you have not yet met, and you were asking to eat her out?
Make no requests. Just flirt, and let things happen naturally.
*************
IF a woman takes good care of herself, the bacteria and fungi in her vagina should be about the same as those in your mouth, anyway.
gray_fox_9
Don Juan
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.