“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Girl Won't let Me Go Down on Her??

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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gray_fox_9

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Hey guys thanks again for the great advice. Hey LIT.....The father is watching the kid for the two weeks. Her son is 18 months and she is 21. And I think you hit it on the dot with the stretch marks. I keep telling her I wanna see her in a bikini and she keeps saying she can't because she still has stretch marks. And 00Kevin I think maybe you are right with your thoughts also. I guess I can only try when she gets here and see what happens. Thanks guys!!!!
 

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yeah i am only 26 but i seen so much drugs , corrupt cops , crack h0s and crime

bro i seen it all

if a woman is up to no good i already seen a chick do the exact same thing before

alot people on the forum think i am too harsh when i call the chicks they post about h0es and say they are cheating but i speak from EXPERIENCE

can it get worse than stretch marks ? yes.

SCARS. i seen scars on chicks i swear man YOU WOULD FREAK

never touched them but i been places and seen chicks showing the scars DAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAMN !

i am ignorant but i think some of them are from them having babies cut out through their stomachs / abortions ? or some type of operation ?

i seen a few chicks with this messed up scar

same as the one cameron diaz had in the movie : GANGS OF NEW YORK

guard your heart with this chick bro she has a baby and her babies daddy is IN HER LIFE

she is not LTR. her babies daddy will ALWAYS be in her life. YOU don't need that DRAMA.

get a hot german chick :)


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
 

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Last girl I was with didn't let me go down on her either, but absolutely loved the finger. She also said it was too personal. Are you sure we aren't all dating the same girl? lol

This must be some canned response and has some ******** meaning to it that we should all decipher and put an end to this mystery.
 

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Some girls are very very self-concious about being eaten out. It's a psychological thing. One girl I dated was so afraid of having a guy tell her one day that she smelled/tasted like a fish, that she wouldn't ever let any guy go down on her, and it took me like a month just to make her feel comfortable with it. Also, because of the psychological barrier, getting her off oraly took way longer then getting another girl off.

A female friend of mine doesn't like getting oral sex because while it feels good for her, she can't get off that way. On the other hand, she gets off easily through vaginal intercourse. Usually when guys go down on her, they get impatient and frustrated about not being able to get her off, disappointed, or are very stubborn and ruin the mood by insisting to keep going. She avoids all that drama by avoiding oral sex.

My advice is, if she doesn't want you to eat her out, respect her wishes. If you keep insisting, you will annoy the sh!t out of her, and will come off like you are trying to hard to prove yourself. Even if she lets you go down on her, she'll have all these psychological barriers in place and wont be able to enjoy it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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In this day of rampant disease why are you eating a woman’s vagina?? It is an internal organ!! Why not eat her liver while you are at it, for crying out loud!!

You guys wont eat off of a spoon at a restaurant because it has a speckle of dust on it but you readily indulge in that which is covered infinitely worse in germs, disease, and sperm!!!

QUIT EATING PVSSY!!!!!
 

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i love going down on a chick! whats not to love about it? It seems kinda unfair if she gives you head and you won't return the favour. It speaks of childishness and an infantile phobia of physical features that everyone has.
 
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""i am ignorant but i think some of them are from them having babies cut out through their stomachs / abortions ? or some type of operation ?""

Dude, ever hear of a C-section? (Cesarean section)
:rolleyes:
 

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Alright guys so after talking with her a bit more on the phone it seems like she doesn't have a problem sleeping with me but it seems she has a problem with me seeing her naked. My guess is because of the stretch marks she isn't exactly feeling good about herself. So how do I reassure her (subtly) that I don't think badly of them and get her to not care if I see her naked or not?? Thanks in advance.....
 

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Originally posted by gray_fox_9
ON a side note its been almost a year since she's been with anybody and she is defintely not a virgin cuz she has a kid.
Maybe her beef curtains are all messed up after having the kid. You know.. she doesn't feel attractive kinda thing.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by gray_fox_9
Alright guys so after talking with her a bit more on the phone it seems like she doesn't have a problem sleeping with me but it seems she has a problem with me seeing her naked. My guess is because of the stretch marks she isn't exactly feeling good about herself. So how do I reassure her (subtly) that I don't think badly of them and get her to not care if I see her naked or not?? Thanks in advance.....
You know how during an operation, the doctors cover up all areas of the body with a towel except the area they are working on? BINGO THERES YOUR ANSWER. :crackup:

On a serious note, just be yourself and compliment what you do see. Kiss every inch of her body, tell her how good her skin smells, etc. Make her feel comfortable and eventually you will be eating from her trough.
 

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Originally posted by gray_fox_9
Alright guys so after talking with her a bit more on the phone it seems like she doesn't have a problem sleeping with me but it seems she has a problem with me seeing her naked. My guess is because of the stretch marks she isn't exactly feeling good about herself. So how do I reassure her (subtly) that I don't think badly of them and get her to not care if I see her naked or not?? Thanks in advance.....
You need 3 things to lower her inhibitions: Let her drink some Hard liquer beforehand, play some music and do it in the dark with only a candle lighting the room (hey the man has to look!)
 

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well... I wouldn't go down on a girl that had a kid. sorry that would just be very disturbing. If it was my kid then it would be ok.


Anyway.. I can see why she doesn't want you to go down on her.
 

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Did I read this correctly?

This is an overseas woman you have not yet met, and you were asking to eat her out? :rolleyes:

Make no requests. Just flirt, and let things happen naturally.

*************

IF a woman takes good care of herself, the bacteria and fungi in her vagina should be about the same as those in your mouth, anyway.
 

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No Bonhomme she is not an overseas women. She lives in the States. I am stationed overseas. And no I didn't ask her to go down on her. I told her I was going to and she said she wouldn't let me. She also told me later that she wouldn't let me see her naked either. So my guess is she is insecure about her body and thats why I asked how I could make her feel comfortable around me. A few guys gave me some good advice and thats what I'll follow. Thanks for the help guys!!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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