I met a girl online, we had a pretty good date and we even made out. She wrote me a letter next day that she had a great time and wishes to see me again. The following week she moved and our phon calls were less scarce...until last week, she completely stopped returning my calls!!! Are women that nuts?:yes: I feel she's ignoring me.......
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Girl won't call
- Thread starter asxx
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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...Maybe you just showed to much intrest?
um i tried to be neutral...not too much...not too little. She even had nerbve to say you hardly call me at one point whereby i got bit upset and said " you checking your voicemail"? i called a lot! I think she's playing games
foomee
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What site did you meet her at?
She probably found another guy to be interested in...
She probably found another guy to be interested in...
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Poo On Her
Pretty women have the power....WHAT A ****! she led me to believe she liked me, she even said " she missed me"...I am a sucker for a pretty face...I read doc love's column which implies ...just forget her...she'll wander why I am not a ***** and insisting on pursuing her...It's all PSYCHOLOGY! I will post if this plan works.:kick:
Pretty women have the power....WHAT A ****! she led me to believe she liked me, she even said " she missed me"...I am a sucker for a pretty face...I read doc love's column which implies ...just forget her...she'll wander why I am not a ***** and insisting on pursuing her...It's all PSYCHOLOGY! I will post if this plan works.:kick:
absolut honesty
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how far did she move?
hi
um not too far...25 min drive or so...she moved in with her friend...her last excuse was she was so busy unpacking so she wasn't available....I think she was screening her calls...when she saw mine...she wouldn't answer. I don't get it...she buttered me up then poof! gone! kUNT!!
um not too far...25 min drive or so...she moved in with her friend...her last excuse was she was so busy unpacking so she wasn't available....I think she was screening her calls...when she saw mine...she wouldn't answer. I don't get it...she buttered me up then poof! gone! kUNT!!
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Last Man Standing
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Hors come easily and go easily!!!!!!!!!!