"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girl won't call

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I met a girl online, we had a pretty good date and we even made out. She wrote me a letter next day that she had a great time and wishes to see me again. The following week she moved and our phon calls were less scarce...until last week, she completely stopped returning my calls!!! Are women that nuts?:yes: I feel she's ignoring me.......
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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...Maybe you just showed to much intrest?
 

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um i tried to be neutral...not too much...not too little. She even had nerbve to say you hardly call me at one point whereby i got bit upset and said " you checking your voicemail"? i called a lot! I think she's playing games
 

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What site did you meet her at?

She probably found another guy to be interested in...
 

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You shouldn't have tried to have phone conversations with her. Only call to set up face-to-face encounters. Learn from this mistake.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Poo On Her

Pretty women have the power....WHAT A ****! she led me to believe she liked me, she even said " she missed me"...I am a sucker for a pretty face...I read doc love's column which implies ...just forget her...she'll wander why I am not a ***** and insisting on pursuing her...It's all PSYCHOLOGY! I will post if this plan works.:kick:
 

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hi

um not too far...25 min drive or so...she moved in with her friend...her last excuse was she was so busy unpacking so she wasn't available....I think she was screening her calls...when she saw mine...she wouldn't answer. I don't get it...she buttered me up then poof! gone! kUNT!!
 

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Move on to other prospects and forget about her flakey a$$. If she calls, fine. If not, her loss. Always keep your stable full of girls so that if one flakes, you will always have a replacement waiting in the wings.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hors come easily and go easily!!!!!!!!!!
 
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