"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girl won't call

asxx

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I met a girl online, we had a pretty good date and we even made out. She wrote me a letter next day that she had a great time and wishes to see me again. The following week she moved and our phon calls were less scarce...until last week, she completely stopped returning my calls!!! Are women that nuts?:yes: I feel she's ignoring me.......
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Infraction

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...Maybe you just showed to much intrest?
 

asxx

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um i tried to be neutral...not too much...not too little. She even had nerbve to say you hardly call me at one point whereby i got bit upset and said " you checking your voicemail"? i called a lot! I think she's playing games
 

foomee

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What site did you meet her at?

She probably found another guy to be interested in...
 

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You shouldn't have tried to have phone conversations with her. Only call to set up face-to-face encounters. Learn from this mistake.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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asxx

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Poo On Her

Pretty women have the power....WHAT A ****! she led me to believe she liked me, she even said " she missed me"...I am a sucker for a pretty face...I read doc love's column which implies ...just forget her...she'll wander why I am not a ***** and insisting on pursuing her...It's all PSYCHOLOGY! I will post if this plan works.:kick:
 

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hi

um not too far...25 min drive or so...she moved in with her friend...her last excuse was she was so busy unpacking so she wasn't available....I think she was screening her calls...when she saw mine...she wouldn't answer. I don't get it...she buttered me up then poof! gone! kUNT!!
 

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Move on to other prospects and forget about her flakey a$$. If she calls, fine. If not, her loss. Always keep your stable full of girls so that if one flakes, you will always have a replacement waiting in the wings.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hors come easily and go easily!!!!!!!!!!
 
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