Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Girl won't call

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I met a girl online, we had a pretty good date and we even made out. She wrote me a letter next day that she had a great time and wishes to see me again. The following week she moved and our phon calls were less scarce...until last week, she completely stopped returning my calls!!! Are women that nuts?:yes: I feel she's ignoring me.......
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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...Maybe you just showed to much intrest?
 

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um i tried to be neutral...not too much...not too little. She even had nerbve to say you hardly call me at one point whereby i got bit upset and said " you checking your voicemail"? i called a lot! I think she's playing games
 

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What site did you meet her at?

She probably found another guy to be interested in...
 

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You shouldn't have tried to have phone conversations with her. Only call to set up face-to-face encounters. Learn from this mistake.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Poo On Her

Pretty women have the power....WHAT A ****! she led me to believe she liked me, she even said " she missed me"...I am a sucker for a pretty face...I read doc love's column which implies ...just forget her...she'll wander why I am not a ***** and insisting on pursuing her...It's all PSYCHOLOGY! I will post if this plan works.:kick:
 

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hi

um not too far...25 min drive or so...she moved in with her friend...her last excuse was she was so busy unpacking so she wasn't available....I think she was screening her calls...when she saw mine...she wouldn't answer. I don't get it...she buttered me up then poof! gone! kUNT!!
 

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Move on to other prospects and forget about her flakey a$$. If she calls, fine. If not, her loss. Always keep your stable full of girls so that if one flakes, you will always have a replacement waiting in the wings.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hors come easily and go easily!!!!!!!!!!
 
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