Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
girl with herpes...
- Thread starter napoleon
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
mroriginal
Banned
In2theGame
Master Don Juan
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
95% of all people in the WORLD have oral herpes.
Now. When you talk about genital herpes, that's an STD.
Oral herpes can be caught just by kissing someone. Chances are, you've got oral herpes.
So are you saying you would go out with a girl with herpes?
I mean I had friends with herpes , I smoke weed with them, drink from their cup, but never had a cold sore.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Shiftkey
Master Don Juan
I know it's common, but that seems way over inflated.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
and herpes isnt a diease its a virus
chicken pox is a virus that can reoccur as shingles later
herpes is just a different type from the same virus family. so is 5th disease and hands foot mouth .
they are just cold sores, they will not kill you. look it up, no one has ever died from it .
i wouldnt go out of my way to catch herpes, but you also cant live in a bubble and sooner or later , you will find out you are dating or kissing someone who has it.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
dipset_mafia
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Okay, Herpes has 2 simpexes,
Herpes Simplex Virus 1 (HSV 1)
and ... Herpes Simplex Virus 2 (HSV 2)
If you experience cold sores, or "fever blisters", you have HSV 1... you can contract this form of herpes to your genital through oral sex...
If you experience small clusters of blisters that pop to form painful ulcers --- either on your genitals or mouth... you have HSV 2 ... (the bad one)
both are life long because the virus lies dormant in the base of your spine, prevoked by extreme stress, fatigue, and other illness...
SHINGLES are PAINFUL clusters, like a rash, that can occur anywhere on the body - they are a result of either HSV 1 OR HSV 2... they appear in times of EXTREME stress, anxiety, extreme fatigue, or illness...
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think twice, make sure the chick doesn't have HSV 2 on her face! because she could have contracted HSV 2 from giving head..
Nobody can estimate the chance of catching herpes from someone.
He didn't reply to the statistics, but they say 1 out of 4 ppl have herpes and 90% dont even know about it, so at least, AT LEAST 3 of the ppl who posted the reply here have herpes(not genital, but oral)
penkitten
Master Don Juan
with that being said, if at least 3 people who posted a reply have oral herpes and i am one of them who has told you up front, what are guesses on who the other 2 people are?
thats just like when it comes to picking someone to date . if 3 people on this thread have it and only one tells you honestly , then you have at least 2 people that could be potential dates that did not tell you they secretly had it. lets just say one doesnt know they have it and one is lying.
see how the odds are?
at least with the girl you want to date in the real world is telling you the truth.at least you can watch for cold sores and know not to kiss her if one comes out on her. you can be careful.
you choose what you want to on dating her, but understand that herpes is too easy to catch when other people are not honest about having it or dont know they have it. trust me.
NumenMalefic
Banned
she got herpes
she got herpes
u r nasty
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.