"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
girl with herpes...
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
mroriginal
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In2theGame
Master Don Juan
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
95% of all people in the WORLD have oral herpes.
Now. When you talk about genital herpes, that's an STD.
Oral herpes can be caught just by kissing someone. Chances are, you've got oral herpes.
So are you saying you would go out with a girl with herpes?
I mean I had friends with herpes , I smoke weed with them, drink from their cup, but never had a cold sore.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Shiftkey
Master Don Juan
I know it's common, but that seems way over inflated.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
and herpes isnt a diease its a virus
chicken pox is a virus that can reoccur as shingles later
herpes is just a different type from the same virus family. so is 5th disease and hands foot mouth .
they are just cold sores, they will not kill you. look it up, no one has ever died from it .
i wouldnt go out of my way to catch herpes, but you also cant live in a bubble and sooner or later , you will find out you are dating or kissing someone who has it.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
dipset_mafia
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Okay, Herpes has 2 simpexes,
Herpes Simplex Virus 1 (HSV 1)
and ... Herpes Simplex Virus 2 (HSV 2)
If you experience cold sores, or "fever blisters", you have HSV 1... you can contract this form of herpes to your genital through oral sex...
If you experience small clusters of blisters that pop to form painful ulcers --- either on your genitals or mouth... you have HSV 2 ... (the bad one)
both are life long because the virus lies dormant in the base of your spine, prevoked by extreme stress, fatigue, and other illness...
SHINGLES are PAINFUL clusters, like a rash, that can occur anywhere on the body - they are a result of either HSV 1 OR HSV 2... they appear in times of EXTREME stress, anxiety, extreme fatigue, or illness...
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think twice, make sure the chick doesn't have HSV 2 on her face! because she could have contracted HSV 2 from giving head..
Nobody can estimate the chance of catching herpes from someone.
He didn't reply to the statistics, but they say 1 out of 4 ppl have herpes and 90% dont even know about it, so at least, AT LEAST 3 of the ppl who posted the reply here have herpes(not genital, but oral)
penkitten
Master Don Juan
with that being said, if at least 3 people who posted a reply have oral herpes and i am one of them who has told you up front, what are guesses on who the other 2 people are?
thats just like when it comes to picking someone to date . if 3 people on this thread have it and only one tells you honestly , then you have at least 2 people that could be potential dates that did not tell you they secretly had it. lets just say one doesnt know they have it and one is lying.
see how the odds are?
at least with the girl you want to date in the real world is telling you the truth.at least you can watch for cold sores and know not to kiss her if one comes out on her. you can be careful.
you choose what you want to on dating her, but understand that herpes is too easy to catch when other people are not honest about having it or dont know they have it. trust me.
NumenMalefic
Banned
she got herpes
she got herpes
u r nasty
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.