"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'd pass.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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no shame here bro
 

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lmao. Dude are you nutz? hell no i wouldnt get close to that!
 

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Well guys thats 1 more thing you gotta think about when making out with unknown chicks.


PS -Now I finally got rid of oneitis, I can be myself again.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I think he is talking about the STD version of herpes, not the "cold sores on your gums" version that most people have.

Stay the f*ck away from that STD sh!t.
 

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I'm talking about cold sores, not STDs but cold sores can be transfered to any part of your body.
 

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Don't think of oral herpes as a "disease."

95% of all people in the WORLD have oral herpes.

Now. When you talk about genital herpes, that's an STD.

Oral herpes can be caught just by kissing someone. Chances are, you've got oral herpes.
 

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Maybe so, the statistics are on your side but I have never, NEVER ever had a symptom. You would expect symptoms when I got a flu, am sick, when my immune system is down but I never had a herpes.

So are you saying you would go out with a girl with herpes?:confused:


I mean I had friends with herpes , I smoke weed with them, drink from their cup, but never had a cold sore.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Forget all this ****.
I'll ask the doctor what are the chances of getting herpes when someone doesn't have cold sores(kissing and sex).
I'll post his reply for all you guys to know.
 

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Ask him about DJ4Real's statistic about 95% of the world's population having oral herpes also napoleon.

I know it's common, but that seems way over inflated.
 

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Originally posted by Shiftkey
Ask him about DJ4Real's statistic about 95% of the world's population having oral herpes also napoleon.

I know it's common, but that seems way over inflated.
Might not be 95, but it is really high.
 

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its one in four that have it

and herpes isnt a diease its a virus

chicken pox is a virus that can reoccur as shingles later
herpes is just a different type from the same virus family. so is 5th disease and hands foot mouth .

they are just cold sores, they will not kill you. look it up, no one has ever died from it .

i wouldnt go out of my way to catch herpes, but you also cant live in a bubble and sooner or later , you will find out you are dating or kissing someone who has it.
 

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Most guys are ,as me I guess, more worried of catching hepres on d1ck than on lips.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by penkitten

and herpes isnt a diease its a virus

chicken pox is a virus that can reoccur as shingles later
herpes is just a different type from the same virus family. so is 5th disease and hands foot mouth .
Okay, Herpes has 2 simpexes,

Herpes Simplex Virus 1 (HSV 1)
and ... Herpes Simplex Virus 2 (HSV 2)

If you experience cold sores, or "fever blisters", you have HSV 1... you can contract this form of herpes to your genital through oral sex...

If you experience small clusters of blisters that pop to form painful ulcers --- either on your genitals or mouth... you have HSV 2 ... (the bad one)

both are life long because the virus lies dormant in the base of your spine, prevoked by extreme stress, fatigue, and other illness...

SHINGLES are PAINFUL clusters, like a rash, that can occur anywhere on the body - they are a result of either HSV 1 OR HSV 2... they appear in times of EXTREME stress, anxiety, extreme fatigue, or illness...

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think twice, make sure the chick doesn't have HSV 2 on her face! because she could have contracted HSV 2 from giving head..
 

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The doctor replyed only not do have oral sex (on me) when a girl has cold sores on her mouth.
Nobody can estimate the chance of catching herpes from someone.

He didn't reply to the statistics, but they say 1 out of 4 ppl have herpes and 90% dont even know about it, so at least, AT LEAST 3 of the ppl who posted the reply here have herpes(not genital, but oral)
 

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If you kissed more than 10 girls there is a gr8 chance 1 of them had it.
Or did you ask every single girl you just kissed for a medical examination report not older than 1 week?
 

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Originally posted by napoleon
The doctor replyed only not do have oral sex (on me) when a girl has cold sores on her mouth.
Nobody can estimate the chance of catching herpes from someone.

He didn't reply to the statistics, but they say 1 out of 4 ppl have herpes and 90% dont even know about it, so at least, AT LEAST 3 of the ppl who posted the reply here have herpes(not genital, but oral)
with that being said, if at least 3 people who posted a reply have oral herpes and i am one of them who has told you up front, what are guesses on who the other 2 people are?
thats just like when it comes to picking someone to date . if 3 people on this thread have it and only one tells you honestly , then you have at least 2 people that could be potential dates that did not tell you they secretly had it. lets just say one doesnt know they have it and one is lying.
see how the odds are?

at least with the girl you want to date in the real world is telling you the truth.at least you can watch for cold sores and know not to kiss her if one comes out on her. you can be careful.

you choose what you want to on dating her, but understand that herpes is too easy to catch when other people are not honest about having it or dont know they have it. trust me.
 

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Originally posted by penkitten
but understand that herpes is too easy to catch when other people are not honest about having it or dont know they have it. trust me.

she got herpes

she got herpes

u r nasty
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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