"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girl who put religion in their profile?

Maximummax

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How do you guys deal with situations like this

"I love Jesus and am looking for a man who follows him like I do! There is no need to message me if you don't have a deep relationship with Jesus christ"

Looking for a christian man who loves Jesus blah..blah..blah

and so on

Do you guys game them or leave them alone for their fate.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I find that women who make Jesus a huge priority in their lives are fvcking psycho. The ones who are more passive about their Christian status are usually decent.
 

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Maximummax said:
How do you guys deal with situations like this

"I love Jesus and am looking for a man who follows him like I do! There is no need to message me if you don't have a deep relationship with Jesus christ"

Looking for a christian man who loves Jesus blah..blah..blah

and so on

Do you guys game them or leave them alone for their fate.
Unless you're specifically looking for a religious girl, I can't see a single reason to pursue a girl like this.

She's hot? So what. Plenty of other hot girls in the world.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You won't get anywhere with them. They follow strict rules that they won't break, and know when the "devil" is trying to tempt them. Not to say they're bad people - I'm also Christian, to an extent - but they're best left alone.

They also mean what they say - because its a huge part of their life. You can't fake being Christian to get in their pants, or whatever. They are looking for a Christian guy to get married to, and have 50 billion kids with. Unless that's you, don't bother.

Edit: they also wait until AFTER they're married to have sex. Promising them that you'll get married after having sex won't work, because its against their beliefs to have pre-marital sex. It doesn't matter if they're in love, or in a relationship, either.
 

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I don't get one point is why they are online?
don't they find any guys in church or religious group
 

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The same reason anyone else goes online. It's no different for them. Maybe they don't like the guys at their Church, or they're all taken, and are looking at alternate avenues.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Maximummax said:
I don't get one point is why they are online?
don't they find any guys in church or religious group
Why do you go online?

Don't you find any girls at bars or nightclubs?

See what I'm getting at....
 

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The second I see Jesus written or any religion at all...I go to the next person.
 

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Just to see where it goes, i typed an email and clicked sent button
than i noticed in i can't send her an email, a message popped up and said you are not in the age range, so you cannot send her an email(okcupid.com).
well i backed off
i again noticed her checking out my profile
so this time when i clicked on her profile,she changed her age preferences which meets mine.
so i am waiting to see what happens.
 
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