"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Girl who put religion in their profile?

Maximummax

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How do you guys deal with situations like this

"I love Jesus and am looking for a man who follows him like I do! There is no need to message me if you don't have a deep relationship with Jesus christ"

Looking for a christian man who loves Jesus blah..blah..blah

and so on

Do you guys game them or leave them alone for their fate.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I find that women who make Jesus a huge priority in their lives are fvcking psycho. The ones who are more passive about their Christian status are usually decent.
 

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Maximummax said:
How do you guys deal with situations like this

"I love Jesus and am looking for a man who follows him like I do! There is no need to message me if you don't have a deep relationship with Jesus christ"

Looking for a christian man who loves Jesus blah..blah..blah

and so on

Do you guys game them or leave them alone for their fate.
Unless you're specifically looking for a religious girl, I can't see a single reason to pursue a girl like this.

She's hot? So what. Plenty of other hot girls in the world.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You won't get anywhere with them. They follow strict rules that they won't break, and know when the "devil" is trying to tempt them. Not to say they're bad people - I'm also Christian, to an extent - but they're best left alone.

They also mean what they say - because its a huge part of their life. You can't fake being Christian to get in their pants, or whatever. They are looking for a Christian guy to get married to, and have 50 billion kids with. Unless that's you, don't bother.

Edit: they also wait until AFTER they're married to have sex. Promising them that you'll get married after having sex won't work, because its against their beliefs to have pre-marital sex. It doesn't matter if they're in love, or in a relationship, either.
 

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I don't get one point is why they are online?
don't they find any guys in church or religious group
 

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The same reason anyone else goes online. It's no different for them. Maybe they don't like the guys at their Church, or they're all taken, and are looking at alternate avenues.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Maximummax said:
I don't get one point is why they are online?
don't they find any guys in church or religious group
Why do you go online?

Don't you find any girls at bars or nightclubs?

See what I'm getting at....
 

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The second I see Jesus written or any religion at all...I go to the next person.
 

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Just to see where it goes, i typed an email and clicked sent button
than i noticed in i can't send her an email, a message popped up and said you are not in the age range, so you cannot send her an email(okcupid.com).
well i backed off
i again noticed her checking out my profile
so this time when i clicked on her profile,she changed her age preferences which meets mine.
so i am waiting to see what happens.
 
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