"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Girl who put religion in their profile?

Maximummax

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How do you guys deal with situations like this

"I love Jesus and am looking for a man who follows him like I do! There is no need to message me if you don't have a deep relationship with Jesus christ"

Looking for a christian man who loves Jesus blah..blah..blah

and so on

Do you guys game them or leave them alone for their fate.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I find that women who make Jesus a huge priority in their lives are fvcking psycho. The ones who are more passive about their Christian status are usually decent.
 

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Maximummax said:
How do you guys deal with situations like this

"I love Jesus and am looking for a man who follows him like I do! There is no need to message me if you don't have a deep relationship with Jesus christ"

Looking for a christian man who loves Jesus blah..blah..blah

and so on

Do you guys game them or leave them alone for their fate.
Unless you're specifically looking for a religious girl, I can't see a single reason to pursue a girl like this.

She's hot? So what. Plenty of other hot girls in the world.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You won't get anywhere with them. They follow strict rules that they won't break, and know when the "devil" is trying to tempt them. Not to say they're bad people - I'm also Christian, to an extent - but they're best left alone.

They also mean what they say - because its a huge part of their life. You can't fake being Christian to get in their pants, or whatever. They are looking for a Christian guy to get married to, and have 50 billion kids with. Unless that's you, don't bother.

Edit: they also wait until AFTER they're married to have sex. Promising them that you'll get married after having sex won't work, because its against their beliefs to have pre-marital sex. It doesn't matter if they're in love, or in a relationship, either.
 

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I don't get one point is why they are online?
don't they find any guys in church or religious group
 

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The same reason anyone else goes online. It's no different for them. Maybe they don't like the guys at their Church, or they're all taken, and are looking at alternate avenues.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Maximummax said:
I don't get one point is why they are online?
don't they find any guys in church or religious group
Why do you go online?

Don't you find any girls at bars or nightclubs?

See what I'm getting at....
 

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The second I see Jesus written or any religion at all...I go to the next person.
 

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Just to see where it goes, i typed an email and clicked sent button
than i noticed in i can't send her an email, a message popped up and said you are not in the age range, so you cannot send her an email(okcupid.com).
well i backed off
i again noticed her checking out my profile
so this time when i clicked on her profile,she changed her age preferences which meets mine.
so i am waiting to see what happens.
 
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