"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girl who put religion in their profile?

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How do you guys deal with situations like this

"I love Jesus and am looking for a man who follows him like I do! There is no need to message me if you don't have a deep relationship with Jesus christ"

Looking for a christian man who loves Jesus blah..blah..blah

and so on

Do you guys game them or leave them alone for their fate.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I find that women who make Jesus a huge priority in their lives are fvcking psycho. The ones who are more passive about their Christian status are usually decent.
 
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Maximummax said:
How do you guys deal with situations like this

"I love Jesus and am looking for a man who follows him like I do! There is no need to message me if you don't have a deep relationship with Jesus christ"

Looking for a christian man who loves Jesus blah..blah..blah

and so on

Do you guys game them or leave them alone for their fate.
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Unless you're specifically looking for a religious girl, I can't see a single reason to pursue a girl like this.

She's hot? So what. Plenty of other hot girls in the world.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You won't get anywhere with them. They follow strict rules that they won't break, and know when the "devil" is trying to tempt them. Not to say they're bad people - I'm also Christian, to an extent - but they're best left alone.

They also mean what they say - because its a huge part of their life. You can't fake being Christian to get in their pants, or whatever. They are looking for a Christian guy to get married to, and have 50 billion kids with. Unless that's you, don't bother.

Edit: they also wait until AFTER they're married to have sex. Promising them that you'll get married after having sex won't work, because its against their beliefs to have pre-marital sex. It doesn't matter if they're in love, or in a relationship, either.
 
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I don't get one point is why they are online?
don't they find any guys in church or religious group
 
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The same reason anyone else goes online. It's no different for them. Maybe they don't like the guys at their Church, or they're all taken, and are looking at alternate avenues.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Maximummax said:
I don't get one point is why they are online?
don't they find any guys in church or religious group
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Why do you go online?

Don't you find any girls at bars or nightclubs?

See what I'm getting at....
 
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The second I see Jesus written or any religion at all...I go to the next person.
 
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Just to see where it goes, i typed an email and clicked sent button
than i noticed in i can't send her an email, a message popped up and said you are not in the age range, so you cannot send her an email(okcupid.com).
well i backed off
i again noticed her checking out my profile
so this time when i clicked on her profile,she changed her age preferences which meets mine.
so i am waiting to see what happens.
 
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