So basically, theres this cute girl in grade 9 (im in grade 12), and i caught her checking me out once when i was walking down the hallway. We pass each other every day in the hallway, and now she looks away every time we pass by. I think shes embarrassed or something. It's really cute, but what does it mean?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Luke!! said:Holy, Saber?!?!?!?!?!?
Were you not banned ages ago. Well im sorry there is nothing we can do for you.
Was I?
I just haven't been on the forum for a while.
saber101 said:So basically, theres this cute girl in grade 9 (im in grade 12), and i caught her checking me out once when i was walking down the hallway. We pass each other every day in the hallway, and now she looks away every time we pass by. I think shes embarrassed or something. It's really cute, but what does it mean?
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I'll tell you what it means, it means you should go on sosuave and make a thread about it.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Em why don't you talk to her?
eXclu$ive $wAggA
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obviously the b*tch was hella interested but since you werent man enough to approach her she gave up on u!
Shush, he was NEVER banned. Stop trying to cause problems.Luke!! said:Holy, Saber?!?!?!?!?!?
Were you not banned ages ago. Well im sorry there is nothing we can do for you.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
eXclu$ive $wAggA said:obviously the b*tch was hella interested but since you werent man enough to approach her she gave up on u!
Sh!t. If i man up and go talk to her would things work out or did i lose my chance?
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hurry up and ask around about her, if she does any sports, clubs, or anything else. then when you see her again, stop her, and ask about anything about any of those things she might do.saber101 said:Sh!t. If i man up and go talk to her would things work out or did i lose my chance?
Sports: "Hi, your in volleyball arent you? When is the next game?"
or
clubs: "Hi, your in geography club arent you? when is the next meeting?"
It means she's off limits. Find someone closer to your own age.saber101 said:So basically, theres this cute girl in grade 9 (im in grade 12), and i caught her checking me out once when i was walking down the hallway. We pass each other every day in the hallway, and now she looks away every time we pass by. I think shes embarrassed or something. It's really cute, but what does it mean?
yeah, but at that basic of a level?Wolf said:Nah you don't need the bible, just experience. How do you think the guys who wrote it knew what they were talking about, it doesn't sound like regurgitated information to me.
Go out and get experience, win and lose but whatever happens you are making progress... What I learnt from Georgio...
You want X (Algebra time folks, X can be anything you want)
X is right there for you to take it.
Do you
A: Run home and ask strangers on the internet what to do
or
B: Take X
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.