So basically, theres this cute girl in grade 9 (im in grade 12), and i caught her checking me out once when i was walking down the hallway. We pass each other every day in the hallway, and now she looks away every time we pass by. I think shes embarrassed or something. It's really cute, but what does it mean?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Luke!! said:Holy, Saber?!?!?!?!?!?
Were you not banned ages ago. Well im sorry there is nothing we can do for you.
Was I?
I just haven't been on the forum for a while.
saber101 said:So basically, theres this cute girl in grade 9 (im in grade 12), and i caught her checking me out once when i was walking down the hallway. We pass each other every day in the hallway, and now she looks away every time we pass by. I think shes embarrassed or something. It's really cute, but what does it mean?
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Kev07
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I'll tell you what it means, it means you should go on sosuave and make a thread about it.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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Em why don't you talk to her?
eXclu$ive $wAggA
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obviously the b*tch was hella interested but since you werent man enough to approach her she gave up on u!
Shush, he was NEVER banned. Stop trying to cause problems.Luke!! said:Holy, Saber?!?!?!?!?!?
Were you not banned ages ago. Well im sorry there is nothing we can do for you.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
eXclu$ive $wAggA said:obviously the b*tch was hella interested but since you werent man enough to approach her she gave up on u!
Sh!t. If i man up and go talk to her would things work out or did i lose my chance?
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hurry up and ask around about her, if she does any sports, clubs, or anything else. then when you see her again, stop her, and ask about anything about any of those things she might do.saber101 said:Sh!t. If i man up and go talk to her would things work out or did i lose my chance?
Sports: "Hi, your in volleyball arent you? When is the next game?"
or
clubs: "Hi, your in geography club arent you? when is the next meeting?"
It means she's off limits. Find someone closer to your own age.saber101 said:So basically, theres this cute girl in grade 9 (im in grade 12), and i caught her checking me out once when i was walking down the hallway. We pass each other every day in the hallway, and now she looks away every time we pass by. I think shes embarrassed or something. It's really cute, but what does it mean?
yeah, but at that basic of a level?Wolf said:Nah you don't need the bible, just experience. How do you think the guys who wrote it knew what they were talking about, it doesn't sound like regurgitated information to me.
Go out and get experience, win and lose but whatever happens you are making progress... What I learnt from Georgio...
You want X (Algebra time folks, X can be anything you want)
X is right there for you to take it.
Do you
A: Run home and ask strangers on the internet what to do
or
B: Take X
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.