So basically, theres this cute girl in grade 9 (im in grade 12), and i caught her checking me out once when i was walking down the hallway. We pass each other every day in the hallway, and now she looks away every time we pass by. I think shes embarrassed or something. It's really cute, but what does it mean?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Girl who checked me out
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Luke!! said:Holy, Saber?!?!?!?!?!?
Were you not banned ages ago. Well im sorry there is nothing we can do for you.
Was I?
I just haven't been on the forum for a while.
saber101 said:So basically, theres this cute girl in grade 9 (im in grade 12), and i caught her checking me out once when i was walking down the hallway. We pass each other every day in the hallway, and now she looks away every time we pass by. I think shes embarrassed or something. It's really cute, but what does it mean?
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I'll tell you what it means, it means you should go on sosuave and make a thread about it.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Em why don't you talk to her?
eXclu$ive $wAggA
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obviously the b*tch was hella interested but since you werent man enough to approach her she gave up on u!
Shush, he was NEVER banned. Stop trying to cause problems.Luke!! said:Holy, Saber?!?!?!?!?!?
Were you not banned ages ago. Well im sorry there is nothing we can do for you.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
eXclu$ive $wAggA said:obviously the b*tch was hella interested but since you werent man enough to approach her she gave up on u!
Sh!t. If i man up and go talk to her would things work out or did i lose my chance?
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hurry up and ask around about her, if she does any sports, clubs, or anything else. then when you see her again, stop her, and ask about anything about any of those things she might do.saber101 said:Sh!t. If i man up and go talk to her would things work out or did i lose my chance?
Sports: "Hi, your in volleyball arent you? When is the next game?"
or
clubs: "Hi, your in geography club arent you? when is the next meeting?"
It means she's off limits. Find someone closer to your own age.saber101 said:So basically, theres this cute girl in grade 9 (im in grade 12), and i caught her checking me out once when i was walking down the hallway. We pass each other every day in the hallway, and now she looks away every time we pass by. I think shes embarrassed or something. It's really cute, but what does it mean?
yeah, but at that basic of a level?Wolf said:Nah you don't need the bible, just experience. How do you think the guys who wrote it knew what they were talking about, it doesn't sound like regurgitated information to me.
Go out and get experience, win and lose but whatever happens you are making progress... What I learnt from Georgio...
You want X (Algebra time folks, X can be anything you want)
X is right there for you to take it.
Do you
A: Run home and ask strangers on the internet what to do
or
B: Take X
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.