r u sure she can afford paying her parent bills? maybe it was just one time borrowing
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Girl tried to make me exclusive but I don't like her family??
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r u sure she can afford paying her parent bills? maybe it was just one time borrowing
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
niceguytoalphamale
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@sosousage She told me on the down low it's a regular occurrence. I refuse to have a relationship with her, move in, support her and her parents **** that
Focal core
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The most accurately described a person, they are always with their same emotional level companion. We'll that speak out loud for yourself too op.. Go get better with yourself improvised.
niceguytoalphamale
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@Focal core I come from a very functional, wealthy, honest family. We are not similar.
mrgoodstuff
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If you look at the history of ALL relationships. The problems occur when they are too dissimilar. Youll be more respected, treated better ic you stay within the type that values a man like you.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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A functional person will not stayed or even get neared within a dysfunctional or remain in a toxic relationship, its just will not worked that way and you wouldnt open this type of thread where u seems unsure about how to react on this whole situation. You can't lie about this cycle going again and again in your life, if u are a man of values and shaped self-worth you will walked away from this and find a quality hb9 or 10 for yourself, you won't tolerated to this bullshlt.
niceguytoalphamale
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@Focal core great piece of information
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P/s you won't grow past any relationship without taking sometime to heal.. Dont be that idiot who are just and empty shell of being overlappers/serial rebound guy.
mrgoodstuff
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Glassguy has the formula. Get fully happy and whole without women. Anyone you plug in after should add to you not degrade. Get whole.
niceguytoalphamale
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@mrgoodstuff thanks for the reference. Although I'm not a fan of his. Alot of his material is basic DJ bible stuff that even the new ranked members should know. I don't necessarily come here for advice. Mainly a vent and a few opinions.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
niceguytoalphamale
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@Focal core thanks for the heads up! I'm feeling alot more better after the vent. Got a clear head now.
niceguytoalphamale
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@mrgoodstuff @Focal core I find focalcore advice and or opinions alot more valuable than glassguy. Focalcore sounds like he speaks from experience not from a "I'm such a alpha" stand point. I don't even read glassguy posts anymore only when I was sorta new here.