r u sure she can afford paying her parent bills? maybe it was just one time borrowing
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Girl tried to make me exclusive but I don't like her family??
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r u sure she can afford paying her parent bills? maybe it was just one time borrowing
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
niceguytoalphamale
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@sosousage She told me on the down low it's a regular occurrence. I refuse to have a relationship with her, move in, support her and her parents **** that
Focal core
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The most accurately described a person, they are always with their same emotional level companion. We'll that speak out loud for yourself too op.. Go get better with yourself improvised.
niceguytoalphamale
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@Focal core I come from a very functional, wealthy, honest family. We are not similar.
mrgoodstuff
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If you look at the history of ALL relationships. The problems occur when they are too dissimilar. Youll be more respected, treated better ic you stay within the type that values a man like you.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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A functional person will not stayed or even get neared within a dysfunctional or remain in a toxic relationship, its just will not worked that way and you wouldnt open this type of thread where u seems unsure about how to react on this whole situation. You can't lie about this cycle going again and again in your life, if u are a man of values and shaped self-worth you will walked away from this and find a quality hb9 or 10 for yourself, you won't tolerated to this bullshlt.
niceguytoalphamale
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@Focal core great piece of information
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P/s you won't grow past any relationship without taking sometime to heal.. Dont be that idiot who are just and empty shell of being overlappers/serial rebound guy.
mrgoodstuff
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Glassguy has the formula. Get fully happy and whole without women. Anyone you plug in after should add to you not degrade. Get whole.
niceguytoalphamale
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@mrgoodstuff thanks for the reference. Although I'm not a fan of his. Alot of his material is basic DJ bible stuff that even the new ranked members should know. I don't necessarily come here for advice. Mainly a vent and a few opinions.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
niceguytoalphamale
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@Focal core thanks for the heads up! I'm feeling alot more better after the vent. Got a clear head now.
niceguytoalphamale
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@mrgoodstuff @Focal core I find focalcore advice and or opinions alot more valuable than glassguy. Focalcore sounds like he speaks from experience not from a "I'm such a alpha" stand point. I don't even read glassguy posts anymore only when I was sorta new here.