"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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girl told me while drunk that she would not confess cheating

pyros

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I've been dating this girl and a few weeks ago, after a couple of drinks she said that she would not cheat on her boyfriend...(good), but that if it happened she would not tell him (bad).

Is this enough to just think about her as a fwb and nothing more?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She is no different than any other woman I know. They NEVER plan of having affairs, they just happen because they are controlled by their emotions. And if it does happen, naturally she wouldn't tell the dude she is supposedly with.

Women are not men, they do not think or behave the same way we do. Never expect loyalty from a chick.
 

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Yes, be happily surprised, if you find a good girl. Most are rotten.
 

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so you would never have a serious LTR with her?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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If I think back about most of the girls I dated, they either cheated on me, cheated on their boyfriends/husbands with me, or were knowingly ok that I was cheating on my girlfriends with them.

You can't trust women anymore.
And to be honest you can't trust most men either.
 

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of course she wouldn't tell you unless she thought she was in danger of getting caught, but her actually admitting that is a horrible sign
 

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of course she wouldn't tell you unless she thought she was in danger of getting caught, but her actually admitting that is a horrible sign
That's right. Means she's willing to lie her azz off and actually be proud about doing it, and yes omission of truth to a 'BF' is a lie. Her statement was bragging before the act. Trustworthy? NO, she's a slvt.
 
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I mean it's rare that a women will blatantly tell you what we all know happens many times...maybe the alcohol played a part in that...

Just know that if she cheats on you with her current boyfriend and then you start dating, at some point she will do the same to you...

But then again, virtually all women do the same thing anyway, so it's not like se is different from most...by the time a chick dumps you, she usually has been banging someone else first.
 
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