Scott Reginald
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What do I say to her when she asks if she just another girl?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Girl thinks she just another girl
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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manfrombelow
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Did you two have sex?
If yes, the correct response should be something like "I never saw you that way. Why do you need to ask?"
If no, then who gives a fvck?
BS questions should always receive BS responses.
If yes, the correct response should be something like "I never saw you that way. Why do you need to ask?"
If no, then who gives a fvck?
BS questions should always receive BS responses.
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I see that you seldom post here. With attitudes like you received above, I wouldn't blame you. Not everyone here has this need to swagger among a bunch of internet strangers.
Answering such a question would really depend on the female and also the context of your situation with her.
I'm thinking that the safest reply to this question would be (and make it sound sincere - as to not put her on the defense) ... "What makes you ask?" Once you get better specifics, you'll probably provide her with a better answer.
As to your question; you'll probably receive better answers, if you explain your goal with this girl. Is she just another girl to you, do you want to build something with her, is she someone you randomly date, is she someone you keep around to warm your bed?
Personally speaking, I don't give (or advocate) advice designed to use or play with a girls head. However, if you need help to level the playing field, I'll be glad to respond further -- once you provide a little background and agenda.
Answering such a question would really depend on the female and also the context of your situation with her.
I'm thinking that the safest reply to this question would be (and make it sound sincere - as to not put her on the defense) ... "What makes you ask?" Once you get better specifics, you'll probably provide her with a better answer.
As to your question; you'll probably receive better answers, if you explain your goal with this girl. Is she just another girl to you, do you want to build something with her, is she someone you randomly date, is she someone you keep around to warm your bed?
Personally speaking, I don't give (or advocate) advice designed to use or play with a girls head. However, if you need help to level the playing field, I'll be glad to respond further -- once you provide a little background and agenda.
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To clarify, when I said "BS questions should always receive BS responses", I meant the girl's question, not OP's.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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I was referring to your "if you aren't having sex with her then why would you give a fvck" attitude.
I'm not knocking you for having a personal opinion, but to someone that's new or doesn't post very often, this could come across in a condescending, swaggering "king of the hill" sort of way.