You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
They're not headtrips and the thought of me never seeing her again ever is a creepy morbid thought. I ****ed up and it's over I get it...You're putting headtrips on yourself man, ignore your feelings and emotions, you probably won't ever see her again, EVER; so why does that even matter?
I broke up recently so i'm gonna give you a personal tip, download a bunch of dating apps, start going out with your boys, get tons of phone numbers, and start going out with a lot of girls throughout the week.They're not headtrips and the thought of me never seeing her again ever is a creepy morbid thought. I ****ed up and it's over I get it...
They have medication for this now. Go see a doc or research some natural supplements to regulate your mood swings. 5HTP comes to mind, but check with your doc.You have to understand that I'm mild aspergers and severely bipolar. My mental disorders ruin all of my relationships. It's very frustrating and that's why I vent on this forum. I do go to school and have career goals so I'm not a total loser
Which is why she dumped your pathetic ass. Grow a pair.beta cuck she fortuately finished? Wtf does that mean and I'm not beta cause I have depression anxiety self esteem issues. All of my mistakes stem from my mental problems. That's why they're so hard to learn from.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
+ 1I broke up recently so i'm gonna give you a personal tip, download a bunch of dating apps, start going out with your boys, get tons of phone numbers, and start going out with a lot of girls throughout the week.
The DJ Bible is here:where do I even get it?
You're a fvcking faggot motherfvcker. You're a fvcking sh1t talking ****Which is why she dumped your pathetic ass. Grow a pair.
Girl dumbs you and you want to talk about your feelers before or after she gets skull ****ed by the dude who wont buy her the ring? Don't worry. When she has pissed away her best years, wears a moo moo, and has kids from different men, she will call you to raise them.
I swear some of these so called men need to get their testosterone checked. Next set mate!
Said woman can get hit by a bus. ZERO ****S GIVEN. Busy going balls deep and ebragging.
wow you're a disrespectful loser+ 1
Best way to get over a woman is to get under a hundred. Swipe right at life. Hit on everything thin, young, and attractive with a pulse. Go get DEEZED! Tons of young sloots in yoga pants wanting the D.
It's bullsh1t why we ended. That's why it's so frustrating...Are you sure the girl didn't hurt you? Because if she didn't, I don't understand why you care what she thinks.
The only way I could see even bothering to say something is if she is part of your social circle, and you still see her on a regular basis.
Even then it's likely a waste of time. Who cares what she thinks anyway?
The DJ Bible is here:
http://www.djbible.classicalgasemissions.com/
Most guys here have read it, or most of it. It contains the basic mindset and philosophies that set the tone for discussion here.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
how did I embarrass myself?Just forget it. How about you try to not make it worse and embarrass yourself further. Sometimes in life you get to a point where you can only try to not make it worse, damage control.
Just go without.
But what if that doesn't work? What if you're multiple chicks down, multiple better looking chicks down the line and you still feel the same?I broke up recently so i'm gonna give you a personal tip, download a bunch of dating apps, start going out with your boys, get tons of phone numbers, and start going out with a lot of girls throughout the week.
No you're a troll.Besides, I think this is a troll. 4/10
You know as we speak, your girl is getting a train ran on her, and your on forum talking about feelers.You're a fvcking faggot motherfvcker. You're a fvcking sh1t talking ****
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Cuck gonna cuck. You mad bruv?wow you're a disrespectful loser