You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
They're not headtrips and the thought of me never seeing her again ever is a creepy morbid thought. I ****ed up and it's over I get it...You're putting headtrips on yourself man, ignore your feelings and emotions, you probably won't ever see her again, EVER; so why does that even matter?
I broke up recently so i'm gonna give you a personal tip, download a bunch of dating apps, start going out with your boys, get tons of phone numbers, and start going out with a lot of girls throughout the week.They're not headtrips and the thought of me never seeing her again ever is a creepy morbid thought. I ****ed up and it's over I get it...
They have medication for this now. Go see a doc or research some natural supplements to regulate your mood swings. 5HTP comes to mind, but check with your doc.You have to understand that I'm mild aspergers and severely bipolar. My mental disorders ruin all of my relationships. It's very frustrating and that's why I vent on this forum. I do go to school and have career goals so I'm not a total loser
Which is why she dumped your pathetic ass. Grow a pair.beta cuck she fortuately finished? Wtf does that mean and I'm not beta cause I have depression anxiety self esteem issues. All of my mistakes stem from my mental problems. That's why they're so hard to learn from.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
+ 1I broke up recently so i'm gonna give you a personal tip, download a bunch of dating apps, start going out with your boys, get tons of phone numbers, and start going out with a lot of girls throughout the week.
The DJ Bible is here:where do I even get it?
You're a fvcking faggot motherfvcker. You're a fvcking sh1t talking ****Which is why she dumped your pathetic ass. Grow a pair.
Girl dumbs you and you want to talk about your feelers before or after she gets skull ****ed by the dude who wont buy her the ring? Don't worry. When she has pissed away her best years, wears a moo moo, and has kids from different men, she will call you to raise them.
I swear some of these so called men need to get their testosterone checked. Next set mate!
Said woman can get hit by a bus. ZERO ****S GIVEN. Busy going balls deep and ebragging.
wow you're a disrespectful loser+ 1
Best way to get over a woman is to get under a hundred. Swipe right at life. Hit on everything thin, young, and attractive with a pulse. Go get DEEZED! Tons of young sloots in yoga pants wanting the D.
It's bullsh1t why we ended. That's why it's so frustrating...Are you sure the girl didn't hurt you? Because if she didn't, I don't understand why you care what she thinks.
The only way I could see even bothering to say something is if she is part of your social circle, and you still see her on a regular basis.
Even then it's likely a waste of time. Who cares what she thinks anyway?
The DJ Bible is here:
http://www.djbible.classicalgasemissions.com/
Most guys here have read it, or most of it. It contains the basic mindset and philosophies that set the tone for discussion here.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
how did I embarrass myself?Just forget it. How about you try to not make it worse and embarrass yourself further. Sometimes in life you get to a point where you can only try to not make it worse, damage control.
Just go without.
But what if that doesn't work? What if you're multiple chicks down, multiple better looking chicks down the line and you still feel the same?I broke up recently so i'm gonna give you a personal tip, download a bunch of dating apps, start going out with your boys, get tons of phone numbers, and start going out with a lot of girls throughout the week.
No you're a troll.Besides, I think this is a troll. 4/10
You know as we speak, your girl is getting a train ran on her, and your on forum talking about feelers.You're a fvcking faggot motherfvcker. You're a fvcking sh1t talking ****
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Cuck gonna cuck. You mad bruv?wow you're a disrespectful loser