"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girl thinks she hurt me by breaking up with me?

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You're putting headtrips on yourself man, ignore your feelings and emotions, you probably won't ever see her again, EVER; so why does that even matter?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You're putting headtrips on yourself man, ignore your feelings and emotions, you probably won't ever see her again, EVER; so why does that even matter?
They're not headtrips and the thought of me never seeing her again ever is a creepy morbid thought. I ****ed up and it's over I get it...
 

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They're not headtrips and the thought of me never seeing her again ever is a creepy morbid thought. I ****ed up and it's over I get it...
I broke up recently so i'm gonna give you a personal tip, download a bunch of dating apps, start going out with your boys, get tons of phone numbers, and start going out with a lot of girls throughout the week.
 

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You have to understand that I'm mild aspergers and severely bipolar. My mental disorders ruin all of my relationships. It's very frustrating and that's why I vent on this forum. I do go to school and have career goals so I'm not a total loser
They have medication for this now. Go see a doc or research some natural supplements to regulate your mood swings. 5HTP comes to mind, but check with your doc.
 

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beta cuck she fortuately finished? Wtf does that mean and I'm not beta cause I have depression anxiety self esteem issues. All of my mistakes stem from my mental problems. That's why they're so hard to learn from.
Which is why she dumped your pathetic ass. Grow a pair.

Girl dumbs you and you want to talk about your feelers before or after she gets skull ****ed by the dude who wont buy her the ring? Don't worry. When she has pissed away her best years, wears a moo moo, and has kids from different men, she will call you to raise them.

I swear some of these so called men need to get their testosterone checked. Next set mate!

Said woman can get hit by a bus. ZERO ****S GIVEN. Busy going balls deep and ebragging.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I broke up recently so i'm gonna give you a personal tip, download a bunch of dating apps, start going out with your boys, get tons of phone numbers, and start going out with a lot of girls throughout the week.
+ 1

Best way to get over a woman is to get under a hundred. Swipe right at life. Hit on everything thin, young, and attractive with a pulse. Go get DEEZED! Tons of young sloots in yoga pants wanting the D.
 

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Are you sure the girl didn't hurt you? Because if she didn't, I don't understand why you care what she thinks.
The only way I could see even bothering to say something is if she is part of your social circle, and you still see her on a regular basis.
Even then it's likely a waste of time. Who cares what she thinks anyway?

where do I even get it?
The DJ Bible is here:
http://www.djbible.classicalgasemissions.com/

Most guys here have read it, or most of it. It contains the basic mindset and philosophies that set the tone for discussion here.
 

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Which is why she dumped your pathetic ass. Grow a pair.

Girl dumbs you and you want to talk about your feelers before or after she gets skull ****ed by the dude who wont buy her the ring? Don't worry. When she has pissed away her best years, wears a moo moo, and has kids from different men, she will call you to raise them.

I swear some of these so called men need to get their testosterone checked. Next set mate!

Said woman can get hit by a bus. ZERO ****S GIVEN. Busy going balls deep and ebragging.
You're a fvcking faggot motherfvcker. You're a fvcking sh1t talking ****
 

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+ 1

Best way to get over a woman is to get under a hundred. Swipe right at life. Hit on everything thin, young, and attractive with a pulse. Go get DEEZED! Tons of young sloots in yoga pants wanting the D.
wow you're a disrespectful loser
 

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Are you sure the girl didn't hurt you? Because if she didn't, I don't understand why you care what she thinks.
The only way I could see even bothering to say something is if she is part of your social circle, and you still see her on a regular basis.
Even then it's likely a waste of time. Who cares what she thinks anyway?


The DJ Bible is here:
http://www.djbible.classicalgasemissions.com/

Most guys here have read it, or most of it. It contains the basic mindset and philosophies that set the tone for discussion here.
It's bullsh1t why we ended. That's why it's so frustrating...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Just forget it. How about you try to not make it worse and embarrass yourself further. Sometimes in life you get to a point where you can only try to not make it worse, damage control.

Just go without.
how did I embarrass myself?
 

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I broke up recently so i'm gonna give you a personal tip, download a bunch of dating apps, start going out with your boys, get tons of phone numbers, and start going out with a lot of girls throughout the week.
But what if that doesn't work? What if you're multiple chicks down, multiple better looking chicks down the line and you still feel the same?
 

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This guys in denial ... listen if she dumped your ass, then it was for good reason and nothing will change her mind. Been there pal. Although if you really want her back then tgeonly way would be to improve yourself.
 

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You're a fvcking faggot motherfvcker. You're a fvcking sh1t talking ****
You know as we speak, your girl is getting a train ran on her, and your on forum talking about feelers.



You call yourself a man?

Step your game up son. Your little cherish doesn't get wet for girlie men.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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