“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Girl texts me once and a while but I haven't seen her in 2 weeks

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She's always busy doing something, out with her friends, and when I suggest a meetup, she says her schedules Jam packed.

We went out a few times, but i haven't seen her for the last few weeks. Every once and a while she initiates by texting me how I am doing, and sharing some parts of her personal life. I don't initiate the texts anymore.

Do i suggest another time to meet up or wait for her to do it?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How many times have you been out and how many times have you asked her since?
 

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Purefilth said:
How many times have you been out and how many times have you asked her since?

Been out with her twice, i've asked her out twice, she suggested next week a couple of times, but then said she was busy.

I stopped asking her. But shes been texting me every once in a while to ask me how many weekend was, how I am doing.

I have not suggested going out again.
 

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good. let her suggest the next time.

she's keeping you at a leash length in case her other orbiters don't pan out.

isn't it obvious?
 

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pdx1138 said:
good. let her suggest the next time.

she's keeping you at a leash length in case her other orbiters don't pan out.

isn't it obvious?
^ what he said, spin some plates
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It's actually obvious that the girl might be entertaining other options because if she is really into you,she won't just keep you hanging for days or weeks,but then It's up to you if another date will do good,oh come on! you can easily sense if the girl really likes you or not though.
 

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troy_003 said:
It's actually obvious that the girl might be entertaining other options because if she is really into you,she won't just keep you hanging for days or weeks,but then It's up to you if another date will do good,oh come on! you can easily sense if the girl really likes you or not though.

The thing is her facebook is always tagged and checked in with her being with friends. So it doesn't look like she has much time for other options, its true her schedule seems packed, shes always doing stuff with friends.

So it might be legitimiate based on that.
 
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