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Girl texts me once and a while but I haven't seen her in 2 weeks

gspshields2

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She's always busy doing something, out with her friends, and when I suggest a meetup, she says her schedules Jam packed.

We went out a few times, but i haven't seen her for the last few weeks. Every once and a while she initiates by texting me how I am doing, and sharing some parts of her personal life. I don't initiate the texts anymore.

Do i suggest another time to meet up or wait for her to do it?
 

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How many times have you been out and how many times have you asked her since?
 

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Purefilth said:
How many times have you been out and how many times have you asked her since?

Been out with her twice, i've asked her out twice, she suggested next week a couple of times, but then said she was busy.

I stopped asking her. But shes been texting me every once in a while to ask me how many weekend was, how I am doing.

I have not suggested going out again.
 

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good. let her suggest the next time.

she's keeping you at a leash length in case her other orbiters don't pan out.

isn't it obvious?
 

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pdx1138 said:
good. let her suggest the next time.

she's keeping you at a leash length in case her other orbiters don't pan out.

isn't it obvious?
^ what he said, spin some plates
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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It's actually obvious that the girl might be entertaining other options because if she is really into you,she won't just keep you hanging for days or weeks,but then It's up to you if another date will do good,oh come on! you can easily sense if the girl really likes you or not though.
 

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troy_003 said:
It's actually obvious that the girl might be entertaining other options because if she is really into you,she won't just keep you hanging for days or weeks,but then It's up to you if another date will do good,oh come on! you can easily sense if the girl really likes you or not though.

The thing is her facebook is always tagged and checked in with her being with friends. So it doesn't look like she has much time for other options, its true her schedule seems packed, shes always doing stuff with friends.

So it might be legitimiate based on that.
 
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