"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girl texts me once and a while but I haven't seen her in 2 weeks

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She's always busy doing something, out with her friends, and when I suggest a meetup, she says her schedules Jam packed.

We went out a few times, but i haven't seen her for the last few weeks. Every once and a while she initiates by texting me how I am doing, and sharing some parts of her personal life. I don't initiate the texts anymore.

Do i suggest another time to meet up or wait for her to do it?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How many times have you been out and how many times have you asked her since?
 
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How many times have you been out and how many times have you asked her since?
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Been out with her twice, i've asked her out twice, she suggested next week a couple of times, but then said she was busy.

I stopped asking her. But shes been texting me every once in a while to ask me how many weekend was, how I am doing.

I have not suggested going out again.
 
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good. let her suggest the next time.

she's keeping you at a leash length in case her other orbiters don't pan out.

isn't it obvious?
 
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good. let her suggest the next time.

she's keeping you at a leash length in case her other orbiters don't pan out.

isn't it obvious?
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^ what he said, spin some plates
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It's actually obvious that the girl might be entertaining other options because if she is really into you,she won't just keep you hanging for days or weeks,but then It's up to you if another date will do good,oh come on! you can easily sense if the girl really likes you or not though.
 
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It's actually obvious that the girl might be entertaining other options because if she is really into you,she won't just keep you hanging for days or weeks,but then It's up to you if another date will do good,oh come on! you can easily sense if the girl really likes you or not though.
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The thing is her facebook is always tagged and checked in with her being with friends. So it doesn't look like she has much time for other options, its true her schedule seems packed, shes always doing stuff with friends.

So it might be legitimiate based on that.
 
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