"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Girl texts me once and a while but I haven't seen her in 2 weeks

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She's always busy doing something, out with her friends, and when I suggest a meetup, she says her schedules Jam packed.

We went out a few times, but i haven't seen her for the last few weeks. Every once and a while she initiates by texting me how I am doing, and sharing some parts of her personal life. I don't initiate the texts anymore.

Do i suggest another time to meet up or wait for her to do it?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How many times have you been out and how many times have you asked her since?
 
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Purefilth said:
How many times have you been out and how many times have you asked her since?
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Been out with her twice, i've asked her out twice, she suggested next week a couple of times, but then said she was busy.

I stopped asking her. But shes been texting me every once in a while to ask me how many weekend was, how I am doing.

I have not suggested going out again.
 
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good. let her suggest the next time.

she's keeping you at a leash length in case her other orbiters don't pan out.

isn't it obvious?
 
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good. let her suggest the next time.

she's keeping you at a leash length in case her other orbiters don't pan out.

isn't it obvious?
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^ what he said, spin some plates
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It's actually obvious that the girl might be entertaining other options because if she is really into you,she won't just keep you hanging for days or weeks,but then It's up to you if another date will do good,oh come on! you can easily sense if the girl really likes you or not though.
 
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It's actually obvious that the girl might be entertaining other options because if she is really into you,she won't just keep you hanging for days or weeks,but then It's up to you if another date will do good,oh come on! you can easily sense if the girl really likes you or not though.
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The thing is her facebook is always tagged and checked in with her being with friends. So it doesn't look like she has much time for other options, its true her schedule seems packed, shes always doing stuff with friends.

So it might be legitimiate based on that.
 
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